Missing him.

Okay so i've been with my boyfriend for about 15 months and things are really starting to change. we don't talk... and we hardly see one another, and it wasn't always like this. we're both seniors in high school and he has a job and i understand but i feel like i'm not his girlfriend, that i just have the title. please give me some advice.

This is tricky. It's hard to accept that things change. If you guys are okay when you're together, and you still talk and keep up with each others lives, then there isn't much else you can do. You're at the point in your life where you're bound to be super-busy, and so is he. Sometimes it's hard to make time for a relationship. When me and my boyfriend first started dating, we hung out 5 or 6 times a week. That was in grade 11. Now, we both have jobs, and he's still in school, and I see him for only a couple hours at a time maybe twice a week.

Talk to your boyfriend. If your only problem is that you both just lack time, then it's something that you need to deal with personally. If there's another issue there, then it would need to be dealt with together. Right now I'm just making the best with what I have, and I'm guessing that that's all you'll need to do.

We had a very long and heart felt talk. and we each expressed how one another was feeling and we are a lot better now... thank you all.