My Mom blames me for everything

Ok... well she is hanging with her ex bf from High School an me aznd his son go out ... but she flirts like crazy with him and blames that if she gets caught by my step dad ... it will be my fault she blames its my fault that she is like this that she smokes an she has to hide things from her husband who was unfaithful in the first place.. IDK why she is still with him ..??? I mean he does support us but I mean thats a wrong way to stay with someone she swears she doesnt have feelings for her ex but clearly it shows she does... IDK I love that her ex makes her happy but I hate that she blames me...

Have you tried asking why? she's obviously not doing the right thing on blaming you at all, but maybe that's the only outlet she has found, albeit selfish.

If she's making this your falt, make it her falt... tell her to leave one of them and if she doesn't you have nothin to do with them.. Either way don't listen to her nothing she does is your falt because she is in the right mind to make her own choises you aren't forcing this on her

I have the same problem with my mom in a way but its a little different she blames me for her unemplayment but all you ccan really do is blow it off and realize parents are really stupid at times and its not your fault they just dont want to blame themselves

I don't wanna make her mad I mean she is finally happy... I love her to death !!! I wish that she would make her mind she says she doesnt like the new guy but the new guy is my BF's DAD!!!