What would you do?

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    What would you do if the guy you loved was about to walk away forever?

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Yeah I guess your right, but it is so hard to do.

  • Kaila
    16 years ago

    Hunny, if i was you, first id lay down and have a good long cry and then id get out and have fun with friends or other guys.. try not to think about it.. it is a long process and it will SLOWLY mend wht is broken but it will happen.. adn dont rush getting over him cuz it will only make it worse.. just let your heart heal and give it plenty of time..

  • Ashlee
    16 years ago

    I would have too move on with my life cause there nothing else too do.. Just look at it this way u 2 were not meant to be so theres has to another plan out there for you.. I know it will be hard too be on but time will heal the hurt just keep ur head up and be strong. You will have too keep urself busy and hang out with friends NO free time .. In order to get it off ur mind off him find things too do with ur time.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Thank you guys!!! Your advice has really helped me to realize what i have to do. Now i just have to find the strength to do it. but in the end i know i will be okay

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    I think he is trying to walk away cus my friends keep starting stuff and lying to me about the stuff he says. And it is not fair to him and i know it's not fair to me

  • shes a killer
    16 years ago

    You can't make someone stay...you just have to tell the truth, get everything across, put it all out there and let them choose

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Yeah I am going to let him know about everything and I am going to let him choose. I just hope he chooses what he thinks is best even if it isn't me.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    I'd say well he wasn't the one I should be with.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Because there is one simple reason I am not giving up and it is because I still love him and if ppl don't get that then owell.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    I was answering your first question : ) I didn't read the rest.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    I know I was answering the other girls question not your sorry:)

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    I know for my birthday months ago, my ex had gotten me a necklace, so I gave it back to him because, I explained in a letter, I didn't want to wear it with the two of us fighting over something so silly since we had broken up over a very fixable reason, I gave him the choice and now it's his choice to make whether getting back together is the option. When you give the guy the choice, you're taken away the power they have over you: THey might have thought you were clingy, but with giving them the choice, you say well this is up to you, don't expect me to be calling you often, I'm waiting for you to make the move.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    I totally know what you are saying. me and my ex broke up over something that was very fixable and i told him that he is going to have to make the decision if he wants me back or not and i don't have my phone anymore so i told him that if he ever wanted to talk tell me and i would find a way to talk to him. I want him to know that i still like him but i am not going to fight to have him anymore he is going to have to come back to me.

  • 1chance3words
    16 years ago

    Like a quote i saw on here...if hes stoopid enough to walk away. you can be smart enough to just let him go...

    theres always other ppl. better ppl out there.

    i should start taking my own advice..lol

  • 1chance3words
    16 years ago

    Or liike my boyfriend said . you cant keep someone who doesnt wanna be kept.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Yeah I know and that is why I am going to give him the choice, if he don't want to be wit me I will move on and if he does then I don't know what I will do.

  • XxBrokenInsidexX
    16 years ago

    I would Cry & Cry & beg him to stay..I would make him see that Im the girl he once fell in love with.....Im actually doing all this right now ='[...he is walking away && all I can do is cry && beg him to stay && see that I Love Him && Im his forever <3

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Yeah I know how you feel I cry and cry and cry cus that is all i can do and believe me i want to beg him to stay. I miss him soooooo much. more than he knows and i am going to talk to him tomorrow and tell him how i feel.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Well he has had time and a whole lot of space so....