Him or Her

Okay so my best friend told me that my ex didn't want to talk to me but my ex's friend told me that he is waiting on me to call him so that we can talk and i don't know what to do or how to believe cus i don't want think that she would lie to me.

Post a note on his door saying that if you ever want to talk to somebody, even as a friend, call me. THat way you leave it up to him to find the truth.

Yeah i know but like she told me he said that he never wanted anthing to do with me anymore and then i got his friend telling me that he wants to talk to me and he would call me but i don't have my phone anymore so....

Well, you're in a tough spot because I don't think you'd want to look like a fool if he doesn't want anything to do with you but that you don't want to ignore him if he does what something to do with you. Do you see him at any place, a school, or an activity?

If you want to talk to him, then call. If you don't, then don't. Who cares about the he-said-she-said stuff? If he doesn't want to talk to you, then he won't.

Yeah i see him at school but he said that he wants to talk to me in private

Yeah i want to talk to him. I REALLY want to talk to him

Your friend probably told you that he didn't want to talk to you because she knows it would be better off for you to not talk to him. I don't know your situation, but do whatever you want. Don't let what others tell you influence your own decisions. Good luck.

I don't knoe either way she shouldn't have lied if she did. I am the only one who knows what is best for me.

Ask him dont listen to other people. they dont no exactly what he wants

Thanks and i think that I am going to ask him and find out myself. I think that people are just telling me things now because they think that they know what is best for me and they don't. All this he said she said crap is what got us in this situation in the first place, so I am going to find out the truth for myself.