What do I do in a situation like this

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    Okay here is the deal. Me and this guy have been goin out for like 2 1/2 weeks and he told me that he loved me with all his heart and that he would never think about breaking up with me and just a little while ago I called him cause I call him everyday when I get home cause he get's off work as soon as I get home from school and he told me that he had some bad news and then his sister got on the phone and told me that me and him should just be friends cause there is like 4 years in between us and she doesn't want her baby brother to date someone that is that much younger then him and so after she told me that she told me that I could still call him but we just couldn't go out anymore so I really don't know if I should stay friends with him or forget him and move on but all I know is that I just want to go back to cuttin my self cause I had stopped just for him, but now we are over and I still love him but I don't kno what to do.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    16 years ago

    First, never cut especially over a guy. If you stopped cutting, it's not for him, it's for YOU. Your health, your body, your scars if you continue. Second, I would just basically say nicely, but assurtive, that his sister should shove off and not interfere in her, "baby brother's" life. We want the best for our family, right, but this is your and his life and you both should act like adults and make adult choices on your own and not like that.

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Oh sweetie, never cut yourself. it doesnt feel good and it only leaves scares. and i think that his sister has NO RIGHT to break you guys up just because of an age differance. but if he truley loved you he wouldnt care what his sister says or anyone else. he LOVES you, that is true love.

    so, i say u should talk 2 him and say: that if he really loved you, he wouldnt care about age or anyones thoughts. he is suppoesed to listen to you.

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    Yea I tried to call him and his cousin who is one of my friends told me that I should call back later cause he was mad at his sister for telling him that cause she just simply would not leave him alone until he broke up with me.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    I can understand the sisters point of view, even if I don't think she went about it the right way.

    Anyways, I know that you think you love him, but you've only been with him for two weeks. That's nothing, and it's definitely not enough time to get to know someone enough to be in love with them. Perhaps it's best just to move on from the relationship. If there's that many complications this early then it would probably be easier emotionally just to let go. If you think you are able to be friends with him then do so, if not then just talk to him about it and explain why.

  • XxCoNfUsDxXbRoKeNxXlOnElYxX
    16 years ago

    But see me and him use to date about 4 months and we lost contact with each other and 4 months ago we had dated for 3 months