Falling appart

  • DeathsRose
    16 years ago

    Both of my b/f's parents are in the hospital...Well his mother had a knee replacement and just got out of the rehab today after almost 3 weeks but she went into another one. His father got an infection in his leg and passed out and went int o the hospital 2 weeks ago. His father seemed to get better a few days later and was sent to a rehab for 2 weeks, but 2 days ago he started loosing a lot of blood and had to be sent to another hospital. He has internal bleeding in his stomach and got a blood transfusion of 4 pints. He's not doing very well. My b/f is living by himself at his house and stuff, but he doesn't really wantto be alone so I've been letting him stay with me and my mother (she said i could). He's pretty much falling appart, but he won't let me see it. He just pretends like everythings ok, but I know it's not. He's like very clingy (way more than usual) and he's always in a bad mood (snappy and moody). Does anyone have any advice of what i should say to him...And even if you don't just please keep his parents in your prayers.

  • stillmomsgirl
    16 years ago

    Just be close to him and hold him and comfort him, tell him that he doesn't need to hide his feelings around u, he needs someone right now but it sounds like his pride won't let him show it, he's allowed to be moody especially if he isn't talking about the situation, he's under alot of stress and it's hard to keep that inside but also hard to let it go sometimes, just be there for him and try not to get frustrated with him, he needs you, and i hope the best for his parents
    hope this helps,
    Toni

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    Yea...just be there for him because he needs you now more than ever...
    even if he doesnt want to show it, tell him that you are there for him so he can trust you....
    i hope they get better... good luck hun!

  • DeathsRose
    16 years ago

    Yeah I've let him know that I am going to be there for him whenever he needs me, he told me he was happy about that...but that's all he said...He's going up to visit both of his parents today because they are in places that are close to each other. I'll talk to him tonight after he gets out of work and see how he is.