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Alrite I know kinda what your gonna say about this but I think this is a little different. I was stupid and made a fake profile...but I met this guy and started dating him as the fake profile. I felt really bad becuz I was lying to him and I started really liking him. I told the guy a little while later, that I was lying to him the whole time and that I understand if he doesnt wanna talk to me every again. But he surprised me, he told me hes not mad, and that he fell in love with the person behing the computer. I gave him my real screen name and myspace and he made a myspace jus so he could talk to me...he posted a bullitin saying he found this ahmazing girl and he thinks hes falling in love. Then he commented me saying I love you with a bunch of hearts. I didnt know what to say, I couldnt believe it, he wasnt mad at me at all, it was the complete opposite. Then the next day i came online and he said he couldnt sleep much cuz he was thinking of me and coming back online to see if i was there. i told him i couldnt sleep well either cuz i was thinking of him and it was true. so he said he wanted me to be his and he asked me out. I agreed and we're "going out" again. but its kinda weird cuz he lives several states away. I really really love him. Ive never felt like this before. He lives in Florida and Im going to Florida in 16 days for a school vacation with my school. He said he wanted to come find me but i dont know. This weekend i wanted to find out if hes real first by calling him and talking to him. Should I meet up with him in Florida? Do you think this could work out or no?

Call him... Talk to him on the phone... and if you really want to meet up with him when you go down there, meet him somewhere public... and bring a friend with you. Follow your heart. BUT be careful. You can't possibly imagine how many perverted, disgusting, creeps are out there waiting to get a girl like yourself to meet up with from the internet and molest, rape, or even kill. Follow your heart, but BE CAREFUL!!!!

Ashley,

I know how you feel. I once meet a guy online and we did good for about 2 years. but it just didnt trun out good for us. But for you it might work. I suggest if you going to see him bring a friend or a parent and make sure you talk to your mom or dad about this. Its always good to let them know and I learnd that the hard way.

Good luck
~Victoria

The phone bit is needed.

And a simple form of advice.. Have him come to see YOU. and stay with a school official during the time that he is to find you. even if he cant web cam a sign on a piece of paper with something personal might be a good idea.

but absolutely stay WITH a school official at your meeting point.

Well to be honest i highly doubt you LOVE him, how long have you been talking for? It started off with a lie, as well, so think how easily he could be making everything up also. you are only 15 years old, if you ever considered meeting him I would be exceptionally angry if your parents did not know about it. this guy could very well be a paedophile.

If you want to meet him, go with at least two people you know, in a public place, and not friends "your age", preferably a parent or a teacher.

I have read enough stories that all end the same. he was lying, you fell for it, and you were raped or killed. so think twice about really wanting to meet up with him. how old has he told you he is?

I also met my boyfriend online,

BUT

before we actually met in person we had already been talking for about 2 mths. and a half. i met him on myspace but i did get to see many pics of him and he got to see mine as well. that way we didnt feel as if we were talking to a stranger or someone fake. We also chatted many times on msn and THANKFULLY i had a webcam and he eventually got one as well so we started seeing each other on there and it was just amazing seeing him.

I do believe it is possible to fall in love with someone like this because i really do love joshua he means everything to me. And like everyone is saying, you are still young and just really think about your feelings towards this guy and if you find no reason why you should stop talking to him then by all means follow your heart and try everything possible to talk to him on the phone and when you do meet him have someone there with you!!!

my brother was there with me when i went to go see him as a "just in case" eventhough im already 19 yrs. old but, hey, you never know right!

Talk to him on the phone!! AND Both of you try to get a webcam if neither of you have one!!!

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I'd definatly phone him he sounds like a really sweet guy and if you do go ahead with meeting him i definatly wouldn't go alone, webcam wouldn't be a bad idea either if it's possible.

It is very possible to have a relationship work with someone u met online i met my bf online and we were together for 2 and a half yrs then broke up but got back together and have been together and happier than ever for the last 4months.

Go for it but definatly have phone contact first and whatever you do don't go meet him alone, it's best to be safe than sorry.