I really need some advice :(

Ok well my story is kinda long, but it all comes down to this guy im dating telling another girl how good she came out in a picture she took (which she actually came out looking like a total slut, it was on myspace)

so i was like 'okay what is he doing calling another girl sexy and telling her how good she looks' i mean im the one he's telling he's crazy for him and telling me that he honestly and trully really likes me, and well we're in a long distance relationship which has gone on for 3 mths already.

and okay so am i overreacting or something. im pretty sure its not right for a guy who has a girlfriend telling another girl how sexy she is and stuff....

and i dont know if i should confront him and ask him 'what the hell is wrong with you?!'

plz something help me i hope you understood my story i really need someones help and advice!

Thanx, i knew i wasnt overreacting. and yes i do know that he's crazy for me he's told me so many times but then why would he go and say that to another girl.

i really do hope that they don't continue talking more or actually hang out soon

but i will def. tell him that i really did not like it at ALL what he said to that other girl. and he'll realize how much it hurt me

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Um this is an advice column if you dont wanna give good advice dont look at the topics.

I have been with my boy for nearly two years and the other week he told another girl she was sexy.

NO i dont think you should say anyone is sexy while u r in a serious relationship.

I hope nothing else happens coz it kinda did with me but things are great now.

If you get suss tell the girl to back off.

I dunno im ranting and this is kinda similar to what I had but i hope it works out.

xx

Well i already talked to him about it, he said the she was just a friend and it didnt mean anything. He tried to make me understand that he only sees her as a friend and his friends and everone else knows that thats all they are....friends.

But i tried to make HIM understand that for someone like me that doesnt really know how he acts with all his friends, to me it looked wrong, to me it looked like he was interested in her. But he said that im very important to him and he apologized so many times and kept telling me that he missed me and im the only one he wants to be with.

So i guess everything is fine now. im really glad that i confronted him about it or else it would still be killing me right now.

Thanx you guys :D

Yes i know ive heard that many times, but i keep telling everyont that they dont know him how i do. I know he will never cheat on me i know i mean so much to him.

Its hard not seeing him everyday. ive never been in a long distance relationship before but he means so much to me and i love him so much that im dealing with the fact that we're apart.

and i do trust him and very much and he does too.

but thanx for posting

Well on the picture comment he left her he said posted that she looked really good in the pic...he was like WOW. and well it might have been wrong to do so but i logged on his myspace account and saw that there was a message from her and so i read the conversation that they had. and thats where he just kept calling her sexy and again stated how good she came out in the picture. but he did call her sexy and thats what hurt me. Cuz you dont say things like that to another girl when your in a relationship with someone you say you really care about, right.

at first i thought maybe i was overreacting, but in a way i already knew i wasnt. I just needed some advice

Im am practically living the same thing, only im not in a long distance relationship, their not friends, and its occurrs everysingle day. However... You have to figure out how much you truly care about him. If you love him alot, then you will learn to deal with the pain that comes with it.
If he says it is just a comment or they're just friends, by you loving them you should be able to trust this as the case.

I know how you feel, and I know how bad it hurts. Some days are harder then other's.. You just gotta remember he loves you.

If I can live everyday, in what seems like hell. knowing everyday for 75 minutes he's looking at her in the same class as me, admiring her body, saying how nice things she has are... and just how overall hot she is..
You can two:)

If you want to talk further you can pm me, it would be good to talk together, seeing as were pretty much in the same situation:)

Thanx everyone for your advice..well the ones who had something good to say.

And well i did confront him about and he said that it didnt mean anything, that he sees her as nothing more than a friend and he kept telling me that i really am important to him and he repeatedly apoligized for the words he spoke and promised to never do that again. And, yes, i do believe him.

Me and my boyfriend also live 4 hrs apart. like Amanda and we really are working hard to make it work. I have so much trust in him and i know he will never do anything extreme to hurt me, like cheat on me.

I suppose everything is back to normal in a way. My trust for him is still there.