Advice is indeed needed...

  • shayne
    16 years ago

    This is my story...

    well...there is this guy...he was my childhood friend but we're not that tight...we were classmates before but i transfered from other school...so we didn't have any communication from that on...but i can see him wen there are events from either my school or his....

    now...the problem starts here...
    when i started high school, we met again...and ofcourse we became classmates and close friends...we usually tease each other and make silly things...we became close FRIENDS! my other friends would think that we are soulmates...

    when we were sophomores we became more closer but he start to court our muse in our class then they became lovers...but he didn't ignore even though he knows that her girl would be jealous...

    but their relationship didn't last that long...i was the one to comfort him...and this feeling started to grow inside of me...i started to FALL 4 him! so, i decided to stay away so i my feelings for him won't grow that much...he started to question me.."why am i running away from him? i felt pity 4 him so i started to befriend him again...and now when things got deeper...this summer he texted me and our conversation was falling into place when he asked do i have feelings 4 him (but not directly) so i got uncomfortable & started to get angry...i had a new num. and informed everybody except him & i promised my self to ignore him when school starts...

    Questions in my mind:
    ♥do i have the right to be angry?
    ♥he started to show some moves but i don't understand if he likes me or not, so, do i have to ignore him when things got deeper again?
    ♥will i befriend him again?

    I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.....BUT 4 THE REAL DEAL, IN MY MIND I PREFER TO BE HIS FRIEND AND NOT TO LIKE HIM!

    ♥

  • Sherry Lynn
    16 years ago

    All you can do is talk to him. Tell him the truth and let him know that even though you do have certain feelings for him you are uncomfortable acting upon those feelings.

  • Han84
    16 years ago

    You know im gonna say a few famous words now "BEST LOVERS ARE THE ONES WHO ARE LONG BEST FRIENDS FIRST."
    thats true you know.. first of all you have to admit to yourself how you feel.. thats the first tstep coz if you do admit to yourself then youll be strong enough to say hey yes i have and if he knocks you back youl be hurt yes but youll also be very strong and youll be ok...

    i can in away see why youll be angry with him because you helped pick up the piece but i do think now he is confrontin you bout how u feel because he is testing the water.. if he didnt feel anything for you he wouldnt ask boys dont think like that unless they do feel like it!!

    if he doesnt like you in that way then you gotta tell you need lil bit off breathing space nad not to expect you to help him thro the hard times etc.. you will have to be selfish!!

    if you just wanna be mates with him then youll just have to say that to him because its lil too late for you your feelings have been and gone..

    I hope ive helped and gd luck
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