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Now Joe... how can I answer this as a mother, moderator, and mentor... yet still be honest?

It depends on what type of entertainment you are talking about.

Strip bars... Well, honestly I have been to a few of them with ex boyfriends and found that the striipers will go to a female before a male... (No I am not bi or gay)

Adult toys stores... Hey I can live with that

Porn: I frnakly do not care for it one bit and find it digusting! How dare those women look better than me and make my little canteloups look like ant hills... Honestly, I hate porn

Prostitution: I am against it and feel that it vioates so many things other than the law. When a woman or man sells their body then they are also going against God's word and possibly transmitting STD's to an unknown victim.

Allowed? No

Turning Kids? Yes.. we are sending the message to our children that these acts are ok.. let me ask everyone.. do you want your child to take part in such industries?

When did you start writting poetry and why?

What is your favorite type of poetry?

What are your poems mostly about?

What do you wish to improve on in your writting?

When did you start writting poetry and why?
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When I was about 5 I think... It was a writing challenge in our elementry school and I won... I also realized it was a great way to release some emotions that I was dealing with...and from there it just went

What is your favorite type of poetry?

Raw and emotional poetry..it can be about anything, but I like raw...Poetry that can make me feel what you are feeling. Let me be there

What are your poems mostly about?

Life and the things that I have experienced in life

What do you wish to improve on in your writting?

Not really sure with poetry.. I just scribble to release.. on my books? I want to be more drwn in to them. I want to find a way to reach everyone.

Books? You write books? If you do, then what are your books about? Are they published or are they just for you?

They are mainly childrens books and how children deal with different things in life. (disabilites, divorce, death, pets.. etc..)

Not published as of yet.. I am and have been forever waiting on my son to illustrate them for me.

So your son draws? What type of art does he like (if any) ?

He is into 3D drawing.. but that has taken a back seat to his computers.

As far as actual art.. not in less it has a pretty girl or really KEWL car LOL...

If he likes perspective drawing, and he likes computers perhaps you should have him look into 3 dimensional drawings on the computer such as 3D Studio Max or Maya (which are more for professionals and both costs heaps) or something like that.

What type of art do you like?

Hummm... I am not really into "art" persay...

But I love the human body on display and all the scentific stuff...

the heart is awesome and one of my favorite organs... everytime I have a chance I love to stop and see the heart and even play with it.

There is something about holding the heart in your hands and feeling it beat.. it is wonderful and totally amazing!

I am a freak what can I say...

Do you like to go shopping?

What are some things that you like to shop for?

I like to shop for my "toys" LOL... Trucks, Jeeps, camping stuff.. fishing poles, guns... all the toys that a girl loves I suppose...

So you like your "toys" huh? ... What kind of trucks, Jeeps, fishing poles, guns, etc. do you have?

My favorite toy is my 1991 Jeep wrangler... I love her sooo much!

I do not have a truck as of yet, but that is the next big purchase on my list....

All kinds of poles.. and different colors too ;)

With my kids.. I do not have a gun anymore.... I still love to windowshop for them though...

My favorite gun is a 357 magnum... put some hollowpoint bullets in it and I am there....

A 357 magnum huh? You sure like leathal weapons don't you?

Depends on the weapon and how well it fits...

Shooting a gun is alot like well you know... it has to fit the handler and they have to feel comfortable or else the shot will me amiss...

If you could only have one weapon which is a perfect fit, what would it be?

My 357 no question....

She could hurt, kill, and even mame a person at any time....

She never talked back, cheated, strayed, or complained... She was my bud.. almost soul mate in a strange way...

And she had one hell of a kick on her... You always knew that you just handled her without question!

So you like your guns to be big and powerful, something to get the job done right the first time?

If it don't do the job the first time then there is no guarentee that there will be a second chance....

So you don't agree with the term, "fix it if it's broken" ? You just go for the new one?

Joe.. when we are talking guns here and in a situation to shoot...

There is no fixing it if it is broke...

You cannot fire too early or too late... timing is crucial and so is the target....

If it is broke.... then I may be dead

Actually, When we married he was not bad... but that is a different story.

I don't know why.... Have not a clue.

He did not start abusing us until after he suffered a brain injury. He was involved in a very bad accident with two other cars and instantly he changed.

I do not know why the change happened, but it did.

I think it is partly due to the fact that his behavior changed instantly that I am so afraid now. Even the good guys can turn bad without warning.

Describe your 'dream' guy. Looks, personality, etc.

Bob: I have heard that before. What can I say? I never saw any "red flags" or signs of how he could be. He never drank or done drugs so... nothing.

Me, when I drink I either love you are hate you and there is no grey line and I will tell you straight up. I don't fight, but I am totally honest about my feelings... brutally honest to be exact.

Joe: mmm... my dream guy is just that a dream.

In reality I do not want the guy that I dream about... I want the real thing.

Looks don't matter to me. I want someone that will love and accept me for me. I do not want to be judged.

I need someone with a strong spirit who will go toe to toe with me and not run me over or let me run them over.

I need to be challenged; yet, they must let me know and show me that they love me.

My soul mate is someone that will walk that fine line and not bat an eye. He will challenge me and not attempt to control me all at once.

Confusing huh... for me too

What do you like for breakfast...lunch...dinner? Do you like to be served or to just help yourself?

Depends on my mood and what's on the menu I suppose...

Sometimes I just don't eat...

However, I did have hotdogs and chips for lunch today....

So when it's broken it's broken. So how do you go about finding a new one?

Easy... go to the store or pawn shop... see how it handles... then take it out to the range and see how it shoots...

Each gun is different and you have to play with it for a bit before you can depend on it.

That easy huh? Then how do you go about with payments? All at once? Or a little at a time?

Depends on my mood and how empty my pockets are.

I've noticed a lot depends on your mood. Why is that?

And if your pockets are empty then how would you entend to pay?

Checkbook.. credit cards... or just go to play and not buy...

Because I am a moody person LMAO...

If I am ticked off it is best that I exercise and not play with a gun... see what I mean

Do you like to work out? If so do you prefer to workout alone or with a partner?

If with a partner do you prefer to lead the routine or to let him/her lead?

Do you gain more satisfaction working out alone or with someone else?

Do you like to work out?

At least three times a day when possible

If so do you prefer to workout alone or with a partner?

With a partner... I get bored and lose interest alone

If with a partner do you prefer to lead the routine or to let him/her lead?

Both... In order for us to both benefit we both must take the lead and allow the other to lead

Do you gain more satisfaction working out alone or with someone else?

Again.. with a partner... alone I do nothing..there is no challenge and challenge is what thrills me to say

If you like to workout so much, then what is your favorite routine?

Anything that stretches me... I prefer to change it up ALOT or else I get bored....

What do you prefer, shower or bath?

My question of the day ((gasp, it's a real one)):

How would you convince a friend to stop cutting?