Ask Joe Column 4

Joe,

My son has set up some sort of web hosting through his computer. The problem is that all the others are no lagging very bad when the kid's computer is on.

Well, my son is now gone.... HOW in the hell to I disconnect the web hosting?

Sherry: First of all I highly doubt your son is web hosting of his computer, he is most likely going through a free site that offers web hosting.

To host a site from your computer you need your own server, which I can almost say for certain you don't have. I am currently working on making my own server for my house and it is even hard for myself to do correctly.

Anyways in the case of him hosting from a site, he would have to delete his account he has on that site, which I wouldn't be able to help you with since I don't have access to his account nor do you.

P.S. Also, there is a way to host from your own computer, but not for the internet, it is called intranet which is strictly just for the computers that are networked to that computer, so for example, any computer in your house that is directly networked to his would have access to it, but not anyone else. But, that wouldn't slow down the connection or the other computers.

Basically what is happening is, he is going on sites (hosting sites or whatever they may be) and is eating up bandwidth which would slow down your connection on other computers if he is "eating" enough of it.

Ok.. How do I stop it? LMAO... He is gone and not here to do it... HELP...

and make it simple Joe, we already had this computer (blah) talk before and it all sounds like Charlie Brown's teacher... wah wah wah wah wah

Sherry: Clear all his Internet temporary files, cookies, etc.

Goto "Tools" at the top of the screen, then goto "Internet Options" then on the tab that says, "General" click the button that says, "Clear History" and then click yes. Then click the button that says, "Delete Cookies" then click ok. Then click the button that says, "Delete Files" click the check box and then click ok. Then goto the tab that says, "Content" and click the button that says, "Clear SSL State" then click ok.

That should take care of it for now. But again if he is visting sites that take a big amount of bandwidth (bandwidth is basically info that is be transfered from one place to another to make up the webpage you vist) to run it, then it will take away from the amount of bandwidth that it takes the other computers to operate while on the internet. When you sign up for internet you are only allowed a certain amount of bandwidth, which means it will start to lag if you start to go over the bandwidth of your internet that you signed up for. Which isn't a big deal, it just means if you are both online at the same time, and he is on a site that takes up a lot of bandwidth then your connection to the internet will slow down (it has nothing to do with your actual computer, it's just the connection speed due to the overload of info passing though your cable)

Would you say that most of the mods are passive aggresive?

Why or why not?

Sherry: I would have to say it is 50/50. There are mods that tend to wait for the last minute to take control of a situation, when others will just dive in.

So Like I said above it is split for me down the center. Now I am not saying that every mod doesn't have his/her ups and downs, but with all honesty, there a few that tend to get to matters slower than others. Whether it be because they don't know how to handle it, or they are just simply waiting for another to take ahold of it, I don't know.

Again I am not saying that the Mods are passive aggresive I am just mearly saying that a few have been known to duck when something happens, their reasons behind that I couldn't tell you for I don't know, so another words, it may not be because they are passive aggresive, it may be because they don't know how to handle that situation or want to further discuss the matter with the rest of the Mods, etc.

So.. would you consider yourself passive-aggressive? Or me? Wait... No I am just plain mean LOL

What type of personality traite would you say you are?

Sam: We may never truly know where the hell she gets all these questions. But it is highly possible that she has a notebook filled with questions to be asked...but ahh the more I think of that, it is kind of strange and freaky if that is the case...lmfao

Sherry: I am not one to judge myself, I let others do that...lol As for you, no I would say you just use your motherly insticts more so than others (which isn't a bad thing)

I have no damn clue what personality trait I am, like I said above, I don't judge myself, I let others do at.

Joe:

You seem to really want STD's (children) extremely bad sometime in the future. If you met someone and fell in love with her then she told you that

1. she could not have any more children and

2. She did not want anymore (adoption etc..) and that if you were planning on children someday that in order to be with her that dream (desire) would not be fulfilled....

Would you continue to be with that person knowing that you will never have any STD's or is your desire to be a father so strong that you would relunctly let her go and find a companion that would offer you children of your own?

Sam: What a great question! I have trouble understanding the super's myself.....

MJ: Please simplify this for us

Sherry: Yes, I want children sometime in the near future. If I was in this situation, I'd search else where for love, yes it would be hard to do, but I want children, I want to be a father, I want my family name to be passed on, I want a family.

And then I began thinking, why would it come to this? Why would the relationship get this far if I found out she was unable to have children or didn't want kids with me?

I mean I guess it all depends on the "real situation."

Why can't she have kids? Was she in an accident? Does she not produce eggs? I mean did something happen to her while I was in a relationship with her? I mean the whole outcome differs from situation to situation.

LMAO @ Sam.... you rock girl... totally rock!

Joe: What if she could not give you one from her womb, but was willing to adopt or surrogate?

Sam and Sherry: Superdelegates are only for the Democratic Party. They usual have a seat automatically depending on their current party leaders. The Republican Party also seats some party leaders as delegates, but the term "superdelegate" is only used in the Democratic Party.

The superdelegates make up aprox. 1/5th of all the delegates. From what I understand, they have almost the final say of who is nominated for office. And since this is a close race between Hillary and Obama, they can ultimitly decide who the winner will be.

I personally have no idea who will get the votes from them, it is a toss up and can go either way depending on the supers thoughts and outlooks on their speaches they both have given.

Sam: I am always Smiling.... :)

Sherry: Again, depends on the full situation. Wheather or not I would do that would have to be determined at that moment in time.

Sam: How is that a question? lol

Just because you didn't read it, doesn't mean anything to me. No wonder you don't understand it, I mean you didn't read about it...

Sam: Well I do too, with a passion. Argh, why'd you ask the question if you hate politics? (retorical question)

Why do you dispise politics so much?

Sherry: Everything in this world is based on politics in some way, so you'd figure I'd like it, but I don't.

The reasoning is simply because politics is like war in a way: he said, she said, this will happen, we won't do this, but we'll do that, etc. etc. etc.

I'll be your friend, not because I like you, but because it looks good politically....everything has a purpose, and I find that political leaders a the biggest two faced people we will ever meet.

I think the biggest question I have is, why are politics played up so damn much? Who gives two .... who says what, why not just do what is bloody right to begin with?

Safe to assume that you will not marry a politician any time soon LMAO....

Do you think there is really that much of a difference between rep. and dem.

Is the party line all that important? Why or Why not?

Sherry: To be honest, I don't know nor do I care if there is a difference. I think parties aren't important, I'll vote on the person I want depending on their outlook on how to make things better.

So I might agree with a Republican, or I might agree with a Democrate...So what. Does that mean I favor one party over the other? No, it just means I like that persons outlook on the questions they've answered at presidential debates, etc.

It's like saying which is more imporatant for transportation? A motorcycle, a car, a bike, a train, etc. It is all based upon personal preferance.

Do tell... kind sir... what was your most embarresing (sp) moment?

Sherry: I would have to say when I was about 5 years old, I was in a professional magic show, I didn't know what the guy was going to do, he told me to lay down and close my eyes, and that was it, he didn't say what the trick was or anything, I was scared, so I sat up in the middle of the trick...lol

As far as your toys... do you prefer the ones that have batteries or plug in?

Sherry: Niether, I like the ones that can be controled without batteries or being pluged in. How about toys that are gas powered? Now those are fun. Chainsaws, cars, motorcycles, boats, etc.

What would your dream girl look like? How would her demeanor be?

Sherry: I personally look for someone who is understanding, caring and loves me for who I am as well as my friends. There are many other qualities such as honesty, trust, and so forth.

As far as what she looks like, she is my age, dark sleek hair, petite but not too small, beautiful smile, beautiful voice, and the eyes of an angel.

Would you consider yourself a trusting person?

Sherry: I would consider myself a trusting person. Wheather or not others do would be up to them.

I was asked this question and now I am passing it on to you...

what do you think brings people together on this site? I mean...i know people on here who are closer to one another than people in "real life". Do you think it is only the common factor of poetry that bonds them, or do you think it's something else?

Sherry: Ok, personally I feel it is not just the poetry that bonds people together on this site. I think it is the feeling that people care (for the most part that is) about the others on this site even though we hardly know them.

I think it is partly poetry but I think a majority of it is because the simple fact that we are an online community where we can't really be judge upon except by our words that we type on here.

What does it mean if your nose is cold?

Sherry: A wise person (female of course) once told me that if your nose is cold, it means that you are in love. (And for the most part, I find that to be pretty accurate in most cases.)

What do you do when you do not know the answer to questions (like politics)

Sherry: In most cases I will admit it straight out that I don't know the answer, and in others I will do research on the subject matter and then answer in my own words to the best of my knowledge.

What are your weak subjects ...

Sherry: I like math, but for some reason I hate accounting. I used to hate english in school, but now I love it.

Hrmm, I would have to say my weakest subject is anything I don't know or fully understand. You see, in my eyes, there are no weak spots for once I find them, they are fixed by learning more about them.

As I always like to say, "The way to knowledge is learning, and the way to learning is asking."

Would you say that the organs of an animal are alot like the human body?

Sherry: Depends on the animal, If I remember correctly, I think it was the pig's heart that is the most like the human heart.

What is your outlook on love? Is it a feeling or is it just our bodies DNA talking to us?

Sherry: No fair you stole that question from me...lol

Now from my knowledge on relationships, perhaps the most important thing that I've learned is that different people have different notions of love. Love, quite simply, has different meanings. Some people toss the word "love" around as casually as the word "cool," or some other word that conveniently seems to fit into nearly every other sentence. Some hold it in reserve, treating the word itself with a certain degree of respect, only to be spoken in the most serious and personally involved context imaginable. Still, others shun the word almost entirely, treating it as if it's something that's meant exclusively for the foolhardy or young and rambunctious.

I suspect that time has changed and evolved the majority notion of love, and that, more specifically, people of the younger generations are mostly more casual with the word, not fully comprehending it's truest meaning or its absolute potential. This suspicion (it is merely that), is based on my observation of relationships between friends of mine over the years.

Maybe it is just the people that I have observed, mostly single people which are the type that go out to clubs, parties, and sports centers to meet women/men. Sometimes they'll have casual sex with the women/men they meet and that'll be it. Sometimes they'll date for a while and when the sex gets boring or they find something "better," they break up and repeat the process. This seems to be the typical process for finding a companion today.

I have a theory. My theory is that everyone has their own unique perspective on love. But each perspective can be categorized, and in order for any relationship to work out ("work out" as in, result in eventual marriage and last until death due our part), both participants must be in the same category when it comes to their perspective on love. Now, obviously there are other factors that might cause a relationship to fail, but this is one of the few factors that I believe applies to everyone.

Now I want you to Describe sad...you can't.

Describe happy...you can't.

It is the same with love...you can't describe it.

Love is a feeling, everyone has different feelings, you can't describe how someone feels, for you can't tell them how they feel.