HELP!!

I dont know wat to do. My friend is gone for at least 60 days and it could be up to a year. well his mom asked me to have people write him letters so i did. When i took them to her she was crying and i had no clue wat to do. So i sat with her and she showed me all his baby pictures. I really havnt talked to his mom very much even though i was over there every weekend. But she told me i was so pretty and she wished hed date me so i could be her daughter in law. I didnt tell her i was in love with her son and i dont know if i should. Is it wrong to want to hang out with his mom i mean i love her to death? And she wants me to hang out with her wat do i do?

Well, right now, her son isn't here, is he? And she wants your company, and regardless of your feelings for her son, you really should talk to her, "chill" with her. Because if u think you're sad that ur friend is leaving, its her SON that is leaving. so um yarr.

If you and her son actually are dating, she just doesnt know about it, now would be the time to tell her. Alternatively, if you love her son and he doesnt know, then you should probably tell him first. It'd be awkward if he found out that you told his mum that u had feelings for him before you told him. If u catch my drift.

He knows that i love him and he says he loves me to but hes in this thing where hes afriad to date me because we are so close hes never had a gf longer than a month and he doesnt want me to be the same way hes afriad of hurting me i just dont want him to come back and get mad i was hangin with his mom

So write him a letter and tell him that you have been spending alot of time with his mom. She is lonely and needs someone there to help keep her mind off him being gone and she misses him very much.

Let him know that you are not trying to cause problems, but you love his mom and want to help ease her pain and if being there makes her smile a little instead of cry then that is what you need to do.

He may realise just how special you are when he realises you've been looking after his mom when he's away. Most lads are really close to their mothers and i know Marcus loves the fact i love his mother to bits, lol.
So you never know, he may realise how great you are =)