Just needing to get some things off my chest

  • tiffany cheyenne
    16 years ago

    Ok so.... wow i jus got off tha fne w/ my bf. things were a lil weird. like his gma is dying of cancer nd all these other things r goin on in his family nd i really wanna b there fo him bt i really dont knw what 2 say whn he tells me everythng nd it jus hurts knowin hes hurtn nd i cant help! things r jus so confusing nd frustrating nd im afraid im goin to lose him ths summer nd nxt yr since were gonna b goin to different skools. nd also my parents r gettn a divorce nd neither one has a job now nd i really dont kno whts gonna happen nd i honestly dont want any1 to feel bad for me i jus want to get all ths out! also i hav ths huge project due n 3days nd havent started!!! ahhh im so lost nd confused nd hurt nd frustrated nd so many other thngs ive never felt!

  • Alex Marlatt
    16 years ago

    Tell him you're there for him no matter what, and you don't feel any less about him just because he's hurting. Tell him you love him.
    You're parents have to do what's best for the both of them. It's going to suck for you but sometimes people think they're destined to be with each other forever... and they're not. It happens too much these days I'm afraid.
    Project, if you need any help with it I'm sure I or someone else on the site can help you. If you don't feel up to it then don't worry about it. One unfinished project isn't going to be the end of the world. But I'm sure the other two things do seem like they will.

  • tiffany cheyenne
    16 years ago

    Thanks. thts really wht i needed someone to say before i fall asleep tonite. nd tha thng ab tha project is if i dont finish it i fail fo tha yr bc im so far behind frm bein n tha hostpital nd other family issues....... bt yess thank u very much for tha advice or whtever u wana cal it lol.

  • Sherry Lynn
    16 years ago

    Moving this to the love forum where it belongs

  • Alex Marlatt
    16 years ago

    Lol. No problem. It might not be classifiable as advice... it wasn't great. But I tried. :)

    But still, if you ever need someone to talk to I hear I'm a good listener and that I'm good at cheering people up.

  • tiffany cheyenne
    16 years ago

    Thanks. nd yeh u seem to b a good listener nd good at cheering people up. lol.

  • Alex Marlatt
    16 years ago

    It's because I've been there. I know how it feels, I can picture myself in your shoes. But yeah, anytime you need advice you can PM me.

  • sibyllene
    16 years ago

    Tips for the project (I know it's not your biggest issue right now, but getting it taken care of might take off some of your stress.)

    1. Make a plan. It seems overwhelming in its entirety, so write out waht you need to do, step by step.
    2. Accomplish one of those steps. It doesn't matter if it's "buy poster board" or "think of a title." Just do it, and you'll start to feel more accomplished, which will make you want to move forward.
    3. Spread it out over these three days. The more you can do right now, when it's not horrifically imminent and stressful (as in due tomorrow) the better you'll feel, and the less you'll have to do as the deadline draws near.