ADViCE PRETTy PLEASE

Okay so theres this guy and weve know each other for about a year and we started going out last year we didnt know each other very well but we decided to go out anyways so we did and he dumped me we got back together in the start of this school year things were going really good but then he told me he'd thought about kissimg my best friend i was shocked the next day he said he needed space and he told me that he wanted me to break up with him and to tell everyone i did because he didnt want my friends to hate on him...well we got back together and im stupid for doing it but i love him too much...and now im scared history will repeat itself i want to spend time with him at school but im always afraid he'll get sick of me
what should i do?

He dumped you, you got back together, he wanted one of your friends, he told you to dump him, now you're back together, but you are afraid to spend time with him?

I'm dizzy lol

By the track record I would say history will repeat itself whether you "smother" him or not. Pretty silly you have to worry about talking to your own bf too much. I mean unless you are obsessive and all over him 24 hours a day.

There's a reason he was your ex the first time.
you should treat yourself better than that.

Ugh.

you don't need any advice. you have just told us you were stupid for doing it, and yes, you were. there is nothing we can tell you that you don't already know, but you seem to be unwilling to do it. if you had any respect for yourself, you would end it, but you obviously do not, and there is no real problem here that you don't already know how to solve.

also, next time you post, PLEASE learn to use fullstops. it gives me headaches when things just go on and on and you can't take any of it in because there is never a break and i get confused and don't give good advice because i can't keep up or make sense of any of it and it just rambles like this and i am not making sense at all really am i? see. it is confusing.

It seems like you already know the answer...if you said it was probably stupid then yeah i got to agree....it was...in truth you deserve better, and you could do better...you might love him, but if a person loves you back they wouldn't put you through all that drama...

But i thought about how i feel when were not together and i feel really bad way worse than how he treats me plus im in love

You're attached and infatuated. His hurting you ties you to him, because you think that you have to make it up somehow. But you don't.

The pain of being without him sucks for a while, it really does, but in the end it will be better. You won't have to feel nervous, inadequate, or ill-treated any longer.

Every thing you guys be saying is sinking its just like when we were broken up i couldn look at him without wanting to cry because he has extremes like when its bad its really bad when its good its super good

Everyone feels bad in some way when a relationship ends, is that a reason to get back together? Not really, just because we love someone doesn't mean they are the right choice, I have to go with bangbang on this one, you already know the answer.

It just sucks i always feel like this it cant be cured its like a sickness