Plz... i need advice

Ok... i know that im only a 15 year old boy. but i am in love with my second cousin. im not a weird red neck or anything like that. just a boy who has fallen in love with my cousin. so she lives like 2 hours away and we spend alot of time together durring the summer. last summer we would talk every day on aim and sometimes hang out. i started to have fealings for her, and shees all ive been able to think about. for like a year now. and ive done everything to try to not have fealings for her. ive tryed not talking to her. telling her how i feel. talking to other girls. but its just that i love her so much. but anyways, she has a boyfriend, kinda like an on and off one. and shes always getting hurt by him. shees always turning to me for advice, and it hurts me to see her with another boy. i do give her my ohnest advice though, i just want her to be happy. i get mad because shes such a great person and deserves somewone that would love her like i love her. i have dreams about her, and not sexual dreams. just like flashis of is cuddleing and just being together. everyday i wake up and say that was a good dream but i know its not suppost to be. i dont know exactualy how she feels about me, but she knows i love her and i am just wondering if i should say skrew it and try to be with her or not. i know it wouldnt be accepted in the eyes of my family. I know that her mom and my mom knows how i feel about her. so i dont know if i should try to get with her or not. i really love her. i would do anything for her and i think she know it. plz poast
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Oh geeze...that reminded me of arrested development. anyway if she knows and she didnt do anything to show you she feels the same way back, one, shes either scared of your family or, two, she doesnt like you like that. so talk to her when you see her, like REALLY talk and ask how she feels.
anyway i dont see anything wrong with you liking your second cousin

She's your cousin, having had bad experience in this area, I would say it is a no no, wanted or unwanted, but in the end the choice belongs to the 2 of you.

2nd cousin isn't the same as being straight on related brother and sister kind of stuff, but i'm sure the only wrong IN it is the physical wrong that comes out in your children.

basically, incest doesn't make good babies.
lmaooooooooo @ the arrested development remark. i don't know too much about second cousins hooking up like that but if you love her, you should ask how she feels about you.

I think marriage between second cousins IS legal in the states, isn't it? I would assume that that means that the physical effects would not be terrible. Is she your cousin's cousin, or the son/daughter of one of your cousins? How exactly are you related?

Shees my momms cousins daughtor...
i dont know what that makes us

And i know its not rare for this to happin, but its just weird its happining to me.
and i think im just gunna talk to her... but firts, Angel From The Nightmare, i wil ask if shes happy with her boyfriend right now.

I believe that would make her your 3rd cousin if she is the daughter of your mothers cousin. I think that makes it a little more plausible in the relationship area, but really the only way to know anything is to talk to her, good luck.

If she is a third cousin, the children shouldnt be affected. There isnt a direct relation by blood.

But if she gives no indication that she feels the same, you cant change that fact for yourself.

You wont have mutated babies, but prepare for a lotttt of people shitting on you for being with her if you are.