Guy Friend.

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    Pretty much the usuall...

    I love my best friend. serisously I do.
    I've known him for 4 years. and I did since then.
    I just broke up with my bf cyz it didnt feeel right going out wid hm and loving my friend.
    I have a day off tom. and I was thnkin of telling him on thurs. But the only thing is im scared...im scared he wont like me, that it would be awkward between us after.
    Also he shows tht maybe he likes, me and all his friend say that he does. but he introduces me to his frined...cuz thy like me...

    I dont know what to do.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Okay what i think you need to do is tell your friend that you like him. I mean you never know unless you try and who knows maybe he feels the same way about you? I say go for it and hope for the best but i mean i deffinatly think that you should go for it.

  • coverd in darkness
    16 years ago

    When it's a best friend it never hurts to try because even if they don't feal the same way it shouldn't change things between you (i'm talking from experience and friends experiences), pls if you never tell him then you will never know how he feals maybe he likes you too and is scared like you are.

  • PMurphy
    16 years ago

    One thing about us guys. Even though we dont want to admit it. WHen we make friends with a girl it is because we want to date them. Our first instinct is "wow shes hot" or "wow shes cute" or "wow shes cool". Off instinct we simply want to be around you because we are attracted.

    Now this does not go for all guys but this is completely true for me. It is harder for me to open up to people i am not attracted to. It may sound cruel "i try to avoid this when i can" but it is the simple truth.

  • PMurphy
    16 years ago

    One thing about us guys. Even though we dont want to admit it. WHen we make friends with a girl it is because we want to date them. Our first instinct is "wow shes hot" or "wow shes cute" or "wow shes cool". Off instinct we simply want to be around you because we are attracted.

    Now this does not go for all guys but this is completely true for me. It is harder for me to open up to people i am not attracted to. It may sound cruel "i try to avoid this when i can" but it is the simple truth.

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    Alright thanks. all of you.

  • ShawdowDancer
    16 years ago

    Guy friends are the best

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    Just talk to him and see if he may like you 2.you never will know if u don't ask. if he may like you 2.take a chance, if they r any kind of friend they will listen even if u like them that way.

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    U never know he may end up being the 1 for u.

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    Thank you guys..

    I did ask him. but he said that he's JUST my friend.
    for a bit he felt awkward, but now he's talkin to me again..

    im okay tho, cuz I got it off my chest, so it's alright. thanks for yourr advice, it brought my confidence up atlot more.

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    He thinks im ignoring him, but in reality he's ignoring me :S

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    I did tell him.