Maybe He Likes Me? Hopefully?

Okay, so.. there is this guy that goes to my school named Vincent. I really like him but I'm not sure if he likes me back. The thing is, I used to hate him. I cussed him out in front of my Spanish class and told him he was annoying and to never talk to me again.

But, then something changed.. awhile after all of that drama, he really tried to talk to me, be my friend. So I became friends with him and then I really started to see how great of a person he was. Soon I realized that I wanted to talk to him, I started missing him, thinking of him randomly, and found that how much I really like this guy.

I'm not really sure if he likes me back, though.. I know he doesn't have a girlfriend, but he hasn't said anything to me about his feelings. I have 4 classes with him and in math, this guy named Dustin sits behind me and tickles me and plays with my hair. Vincent sits all the way across the room and sees him messing with me. It really surprised me, because I have to move just to get a view of him. And in Biology he sits right beside me and everyday says things like,"Omg, Dustin likes you so much. He messes with you everyday in math, and you LAUGH about it." Then he tells me to just tell Dustin off and get him to stop messing with me. Dustin sits right infront of us and sometimes turns around and stares at me.. and Vincent will say,"Dude, back up and get off our desk. Thank you."

Yesterday we were doing our homework together in Biology and he was helping me out a lot. We had a free day and were having a really fun, joking, awesome conversation. I've never talked to him so much before and everytime I looked over, he was looking back. He looks at me a lot (i've noticed).. but not that much. Oh, and some things he did showed that he is at least attracted to me, but I can't say them here.. lol.

We message each other on youtube and talk at school, but still.. I dunno if he likes me. And if he does, I don't know how I'll tell him I like him back. I've never made the first move or asked a guy out in my entire life.

Advice, please?!?!?!

I think that you should totally go for it and tell him how you feel. I think it would be worth it cus he might feel the same way.

I only read the start of the message. All i have to say this.....

The only reason i would ever try to be friends with a chick who cuss's me out infront of my entire class...... Is if i thought she was really really hot / sombody special.

That is just me!

Now i usually just treat people the way they treat me, ill be straight up with them. But love is strange and overcomes even the most typical emotions.

That is why i say..

Nothing ventured nothing learned

Lol, oh yeah..
We did get off on the wrong foot.
But we're really good friends now.
And I want to be something more =/
Have no idea how to get something started, though..
I've never been bold.
Have that woman ego going on, lol.

Also....

Somtimes their is a time a man needs to be a man.

I think it should be his job to take the first step always. Now i dont see anything wrong about asking him out. But i do feel its a mans obligation to get the job done. if not he is weak!

also i understand the wrong foot.

But i was saying...

I would NEVER be friends with somone who treated me wrongly without knowing me.

That is when i would cut the cord

Yeah..
I know I really need to tell him.
I was thinking about doing it over the internet..
Because I have his youtube account name.
If he can stay on long enough for us to talk,
Then I'll tell him >.<

Internet = bad idea...

If you ask him out.

Do it in person.

Ive tried the internet thing, it has never worked for me.

But i supposed a guy talking to a girl is different.

Oh, don't do it on the internet, it means so much more in real life. Plus, you don't have to say "will you go on a date with me" or anything so bold, just say "hey I really wanted to go see that one movie coming out on Friday, wanna come". It's not technically 'making a move', but it's definitely giving him an opening. See where things go from there.

Oh blah...
Then should I pass him a note during class or something?

I finally got on facebook and added him as a friend.
His profile says that he is single and is looking for dating/ a relationship.

A note? "Do you like me? Check yes or no."

Come on chica, you're not in elementary school. If you're going to be dating this fellow, you're going to have to speak to him eventually! Otherwise your dates will be very quiet. Why not, before asking him out, invite him to hang out with you on the weekend or something? That gives him a hint that you like him, in case he likes you too, and it gives you some time to get to know each other, get used to each other, and establish some sort of friendship (or at least something different than your little dramatic beginning) -before- you ask him out.

Hmmm... yes, you are right. I am just clueless on how to make the first move and things like that, but you have some great ideas. I do talk to him every single day, but he still doesn't know that I like him. I've tried dropping hints but he is a guy, he doesn't get it lol.

He has already told me that some time he is going to have a party for his friends and that I was invited to come if I wanted. I may invite him to hang out sometime or if he invites me again, I'll hang out with him and try talking to him.

Thanks for the help, sweet heart =)

Those seem like great venues for spending some more time with him. : D See how it goes! It sounds like he definitely likes you in some way, if he's telling you about a party and wants you to go to it. Good luck with everything!

Yeah..
But he said that before I realized that I really like him.
So yeah.. I didn't go =S
Hopefully he does ask me again!
Because I can't wait around forever..
Not even in school for another month.