How to be the best girlfriend guys&&girls please help

  • lulu
    16 years ago

    Okay im with this i guy that i really love
    &&right now things are really good but
    i need some advice on how to really make him fall hard
    to be a really good girlfriend
    so if you can please post some advice
    please&&thank you.
    -lulu

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Hunni...
    Just be yourself.
    If he really loves you, then you won't need any silly tricks to make him fall for you.
    True love is all about personality..
    Not trying to be something you're not.

    Here is a quote.. you could learn from it.

    "You aren't going to be his first, his last, or his only. He's loved before, he will again. But if he loves you now, what else matters? He's not perfect, neither are you. The two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, cause you to think twice, admits to being human and making mistakes, hold on to him and give him the most you can. He's not going to quote poetry, he's not going to be thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you can break. Don't hurt him, don't change him, and don't expect more than he can give. Try not to over-analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he's not there."

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    "I need some advice on how to really make him fall hard"

    Why would you want to "make" him fall hard, let it happen naturally.

  • XxBrokenInsidexX
    16 years ago

    First-Off: You shouldnt be asking us how to be a good girlfriend!
    You just need to be yourself..&& if he doesnt think the real you is the best then he doesnt deserve you.
    You shouldnt ask how to be the good girlfriend because simply enougth the good girlfriend is the girlfriend who can be herself!

  • Kelsie
    16 years ago

    Obviously he chose u for a reason man, because he dug u and what u r all about. so just keep opening urself up and showing him more and more who u are and what u stand for and if he digs it, then u guys were meant for each other but if he doesnt than hes not worth ur time.

  • shivali
    16 years ago

    Just LOVE...
    its the only solution to ur problem.......
    and love is...care,support,understanding and trust..
    if u have these in ur relation ur the best lover.....

  • lulu
    16 years ago

    Yes youre right its mostly my insecuritys.
    but i dont know if im the best me i dont know if hes really looking at me