So confused..help..

Ok so i talked to one of my sisters friends. hes so amazing and really great. we made out the other night so now i really like him. my sister is keeping me from seeing him and she being overly protective of him even though she has a bf..

any suggestions? i could really use them =/

Make out with the guy after you're dating him O.o No use getting doing that unless you're sure you won't get your heart broken before you're dating him. You should talk to your sister about her feelings on the situation.

Maybe u should talk to ur sister and ask her why she wouldnt want u with him, maybe she knows more about him than u do. u shouldnt just like someone cuz u made out with them though man, make sure u dig their personality too

Yeh....

just try to know more abt the guy, ask ur sis .may be she didn't wan to fall in wrong hand or may be............ just ask her.

Talk 2 your sister and see how she feels about this situation.

Alright lets come from the negative side of the block. A lot of girls, regardless of the fact they have boyfriends or not. They like to have attention, and they like to be able to say they have quite a few guy friends. They dont like their guy friends getting to know other girls, specially their own friends because their afraid theyll like them more. Im sure a lot of people will disagree with this but I see it happen 24 friggin 7. Everyone wants to be everything and have everything these days. And she could be protecting you too, your only 13 and making out with guys you arent dating so hell who knows whatd you do down the road. That would be a pretty strong argument also.

Well.. if i were your sister..id do the same.. i mean.. c'mon..you made out with him at the first meeting?? thats crazy

..and how old are you anyway??

It shouldn't be made out with, it should be kissed, I dont like knowing about real young girls with there tounges down guys throat, yeah I have kissed guys when I was younger but it is more of an influence to start touching....
i wish i waited till marriage...

Well, it seems to me if you started to like him AFTER you guys MADE-OUT then all you feel for the guy is Lust,not LOVE or LIKE...
Just Lust.

I'm sorry and i mean this with all the love in the world, but you are 13 (at least according to your profile). If you sister is older than you even by two years, that means her friend is also going to be older right? You two are on two completely different emotional maturity levels (i'm assuming, i have met neither of you two). I would suggest just try to forget him. If your sister is keeping you from seeing him, there is a reason for it. Talk to her. I have a younger sister and i know i would do anything to keep her safe, even from my friends who she likes. Just try to be understanding with her. It's hard to be an older sister sometimes.
xo
ariel

Talk to your sister and tell her how you feel and how you feel about this guy. if your sis wants you to be happy then she should let you see him...right?