EX WANTS ME BACK!!!!!!!!! HELP

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    My ex bf wants me back and he says that he loves me when i told to to stop talking to his ex fiance he told me thet they are just friends and nothing more and theres more to the story ill tell you if you can help me

  • Hatori
    16 years ago

    Based on what you said here, he's not worth it. If he and his fiance are JUST friends right now, something must've happened to do that.

    Based on the past, he's using you to help make himself not feel as bad for losing his fiance. Seriously, if it were me in your position, I wouldn't go for it cause he felt it was fit to leave for that other woman in the first place, right?

    However, if that last paragraph was wrong and you left him, then I dunno. Either way, just don't rush into anything. Keep it cool for a bit and see his real actions and what he REALLY feels, not just what he says he feels.

    Well... you also need to think of something else before you decide to take him back or not. How do YOU feel about this guy?

    I dunno if this is much help, but I hope so =) good luck

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    He is your ex for a reason and if you still don't trust him, th answer is pretty simple.

  • Shotput Girl
    16 years ago

    I wouldn't trust him.

  • Moose
    16 years ago

    Some guys deserve that second chance. Its hard to tell from the little bit you told me, but nothing here says that he DOESNT deserve another shot.

    Dont give him your full heart at the start, make him work for it. The harder he works, the more it will seem worth it.

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    I've learned from experience,I gave my ex three chances a,d he blow every single one of them.So follow ur heart.It knows the right path 2 lead u.
    goog luck.

  • Freedom
    16 years ago

    Hm..you should listen to your heart,i think,if your hearts says give him chance then give,but if u feel it aint gona work,then why make same mistake again?

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Well lemme tell you my golden rule about relationships, one I practice myself even. Gasp. If you have to ask for advice for your relationship, you shouldnt be in a relationship. Double gasp. But seriously, think about it. Love should come natural, and if it isnt then whats really the point? Pieces.

  • Love is a Beautiful Thing
    16 years ago

    Thanks ya'll i will move on ill find a man way better than him soon enough and the weird thing is i look alot like his ex we're both short tan same color hair hair eyes and alot more so i think when he met me thats the only reason he wanted me and right before he asked me out was then he and his ex broke it off so sadly i think that he just used me to remind him of her and everything but thats over im not gonna talk to him anymore plus its long distance so it will be east to avoid him