Pressure!!!!!!

I'm 18 and I get pressured from other people 2 have s*x. They'll say stuff like"You need 2 have s*x,it will make your relationship stronger" or" you need 2 have sex b/c your 18 now and you can do whatever you want" I'm just getting sick of it.I try 2 brush it off like it's nothing, but I running out of options of what 2 do about it.
please help.
babydoll:(

If I were you...
I'd tell them to shut the hell up and mind their own business.
This is YOUR life, not theirs.
You decide what you want to do, not them.
I believe your first time should be special and you shouldn't just give yourself to someone just because you think you're old enough now.
If you're not ready, then you're not ready.
Tell whoever it is to back off and just don't have sex until you feel as though you're ready.
That's the best advice I can give you, hun.

Good luck!

Thank u.your sweet.do u think i should tell my bf about this?

I definitely would.
It is good that you talk about these things with him.
Let him know how you feel and what you believe.

Ur sweet. I believe I will.no I know I will.

Is there anything u want 2 talk to me about?

That's very good.
Good luck with it, hun!
I wish the best for you.

Dude its ur body, do ur own thing, dont listen to everyone else because its not their life. seriously.

Itll be a cold day in hell when someone else can tell you what to do. If you even give thought to what they say Im sorry but your an idiot and too easily influenced. Act your age and think for yourself.

I don't like pressure myself, so I don't pressure my girl. I know it's bad. I'm sorry that you're pressured. Though it may be hard and easier said than done, but you must know that if a guy isn't willing to give you your choice and space when you need it then he isn't the right guy and it could potentially lead to worse.

Good luck with how things work out.

Obviously people need to realize that just because you can have sex it doesn't mean you want to. It shouldn't be something you do just because.... Stay strong and be proud of your choice, own it and tell them to mind their own business.

Here is a sad truth *not saying you should hit the sack with the man, do it when your ready*

But most men it is hard for us to stay in love with somone unless she is just that special someone. If we do not get alittle sumthin sumthin.

Its a sad truth. We hate to admit it, but its true. We can have an extreme crush on a chick, but in a few years if wer not getting any. The crush dies off, we are no longer attracted. We dont think about it, it just happens. But if it stays interesting and we get that sumthin sumthin then its different. But then again different roads could turn and other things could happen where we think all you are is a toy. THis is a horrible thing.

So i say, do what you think is right. Dont care what others say, because in the end you are your only judge.

^^lol Not true by a long shot, maybe for some, but definitely not all. If you say you love someone, you are willing to wait and you don't pressure them, gentlemen do actually exist in this day and age.

Thank you all.I told him about getting pressured, and he was getting pressured too by someone else.He doesn't pressure me. The past 2 days those people pressuring us has left us alone, but I know pretty soon they will start again.My boyfriend says he still is attracted to me and says he wants to marry me,but not so soon.maybe aftere college.He also told me that he respects my body and he's a virgin himself( he's about to be 18).He also said that he afaid to have s*x right now, b/c he if afaid it will kill our relationship.I know it seems like cheap talk,but I've already dated someone that was an a**hole and wanted nothing but one thing.