He Never Messages Back

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Okay, so...
    There is this guy from my school named Vincent.
    And I am totally, deeply in like with him.
    He flirts with me every single day at school...
    And has dropped all of the hints of liking me back.
    People that see us together even say that he acts like he likes me and is always making up excuses to talk to me,
    I am his friend on youtube and facebook.
    I have sent him a few messages on both,
    But he never messages me back.
    I have no idea why either, especially if he likes me.
    He messaged me back, like... twice, but that's it.

    What do you guys think about it?
    It just really really bothers me..
    Maybe he really doesn't like me.
    I have no idea.

    If you want more info, here is another post about the way he is around me when we're together.

    http://www.poems-and-quotes.com/discussion/topic.html?topic_id=105980

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Yeah.. I dunno what's up.
    I missed school today so I left him a little message on youtube just simply asking how Cinco de Mayo went.
    But he has been on for about 15 minutes and hasn't said anything.
    Gah! Guys drive me up the wall.

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Um maybe he just doesnt use it much? or he just doesnt like using messages on there? Im the same way, id rather talk to someone on the phone or up front rather than send a message. I seriously dont see the problem here, so dont try to blow it up to be some big conspiracy.
    Pieces.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    He gets on youtube like, every single night.
    Yeah... he might just not like messaging on it or something. I have no idea.
    Maybe I'll ask him about it tomorrow?
    But I don't wanna make a big deal out of it or anything.

    And anyways, I was unable to go to school today so I wasn't able to talk to him at all and I missed Cinco de Mayo.
    I know he went though because he is in my Spanish class and said he was going to it.
    Oh.. and I don't have his phone number >.<
    So I couldn't rely on that.

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Dont see what that has to do with jack spit. But alrighty. Andddd why does this whole thing even bother you? Like really.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Oh, the Cinco de Mayo thing..
    I left him a message just asking how it went.
    And yeah.. didn't reply back.

    It just bothers me because we talk all of the time at school,
    He has dropped all of the signs of having some kind of feelings for me,
    But he can't even message me back online?
    It's just... weird.

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Dude. Your stupid. Lmao, thats what I said aloud. But really, dont even worry about it. Id be a helluva lot more worried about him talking to you onlien a lot but not in person. Really, get over it. Its not even that weird, guys just arent as talkative and chatty and message text crazy as girls.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Wow, okay..
    You could have said that in a nicer way, you know.

    It's just I was confused on the matter because if you like a girl and she tried to talk to you online, you would at least send her something back, wouldn't you?

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Dude but like who re sends messages on youtube.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    I have a ton of friends that I post on walls with and stuff. And that's what I did. I didn't sent it in a message, I posted it up on his wall.
    Surely he saw it because there aren't any other posts on it.
    Well.. one, but that's it.

    At least when I told him I sent him a friend request on facebook, he jumped on and accepted it.
    That made me happy because he hardly gets on there anymore =) But he did just for me. So yay.

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    Well there you go not everything hes doing on the super serious internet is negative. And just because hes logs onto the site doesnt mean he goes through all his messages. Like youtube, the main reason people get on there is to put comments on videos. Just look at how many friggin comments are on all of them.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Hmmm... guess you're right.
    Hopefully I'm feeling well enough to go back to school tomorrow and talk to him again.
    Make sure everything is still the same between us.

    Thanks.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    As blunt as the other guy was, he was right. You can't really take the online stuff too seriously. If he acts like he likes you in person, then he probably does. He might just be distracted on the internet. I wish you luck with things, although I doubt you need it. :)