How will it work out?

I'm a minor who fell in love with a major on internet.

Already with this first phrase you might have gotten plenty of prejudices.
I can assure you that i have his address, his telephone number, and some more information on him that can set him into deep trouble if he abuses me in anyway.

I met him in the month of October 2007, and we have been in a relationship since the month of December 2007.
In February 2008, my mother found out everything on our relationship because of my confessing after a week of exchanged phone calls. She called him up and told him to leave me alone.
The morning after that terrible night I sneaked on the computer and we remained in our relationship, but hidden.

Now, I crave for him at each instant. I want nothing but to be there in his arms, nothing but to fall asleep next to him at night, nothing but to hold him, to touch him.
This craving is like a disease that has plagued us both.I do not even need to say it, and he confesses it. It was rather probably he first that confessed.

A couple of weeks ago we decided that we would runaway. At first, we thought of going to Israel. But the age of consent wasn't high enough.
Then we decided to go to Spain. But yesterday night we both had heart ache. On MSN we had a phone call, and he begged me to let him come now. We've been in that situation, and he says sorry right after he says :'' Please let me come''. But yesterday night I didn't know how to refuse once again, I didn't know how to be strong again, so I told him to come.
Now we are going to run away and stay invisible to all.

It's the craziest thing that has ever happened to both of us. But I don't regret it.
He is the answer to all my prayers, the ray of light in the darkness around me. He utters the words that my heart screams out for him to hear.

You might still think he is dangerous. Think as you wish, each individual has the choice of thought.

All I ask is for the people out there who have lived through something like this, who understand what is going with both of us, to leave their council, their advice. If you know how to run away well, to become completely invisible, please leave your directions here.

Thank you.

I really think it is a bad decision as well. You have no idea whether you're even going to be with this guy forever or not.. and what if you two do break up, you'll have nowhere to go. No way to get there.

By running away all you're going to end up doing is hurting yourself and those who love you. Just think about your parents, your friends, and your boyfriend. He isn't even supposed to be with you and if you two are caught, he WILL be taken to jail. No questions asked. No matter what you tell the police he will be charged with kidnapping and rape if you two end up having sex.

If this guy really cared about you, he'd wait until you're old enough to bring your relationship to real life. At least not have you ruin your life by running away with him. You still have your whole life ahead of you.. you need to finish school.

I know you didn't like hearing all of that. But you truly needed to. Don't throw your life away over a relationship, wait until you're old enough to be with this guy. I know it'll be hard, but you shouldn't run away with him.

I recall watching a show where this girl met a guy on the net and they were so madly in love she left the country to go be with him, that was the end of the love affair. People are anything they need to be when you are not face to face. The fact that you are 13 and running away not only shows your maturity but his as well. I pray you are smart enough to realize your mistake before you make it. How old is he?

Wait five years. I guarantee you, it won't even take that long for one of the following things to happen:

1. He'll leave you for a real girl.
2. You'll leave him for a real boy.
3. You'll mature enough to realize that even if you still "love" him at this point, running away is an incredibly stupid unsafe idea.

Honestly, you can't run away with some boy and just become invisible. Unless he turns out to be a psycho- which is highly likely. Please wait, you have no idea how dangerous this is. You'll realize in a few years that this would be the biggest mistake of your life. You'll also realize how loosely you are throwing the "love" word around.

Are you crazy? Anybody giving you that type of information could be in serious trouble!

What you are asking is for someone to help you two break the law.

Sorry, but I agree with what the others above have said and I advise anyone reading this not to cross the line. I for one do not want to find myself in legal trouble for helping a GROWN man run away with you.

If you go through with this then he could be charged with kidnapping... a felony offence if you cross state lines... and many other charges as well.

If you truly love this man like you say then you would not allow this to happen. You would wait and not risk him going to prison for life... If he is serving a life sentence then you two will never be together.

~~Sher

It wont work out!

I agree with everyone else that posted...running away with this guy will only end up ruining your life. we might not know the guy like you do. you might be sayin 'you guys dont understand how much we love each other' and your right we dont. but its still a very crazy idea and i doubt that ANYONE will give you advice on how to runaway. becuz even you know deep down that its an insane idea. your still a kid...13 yrs. old you've barely turned into a teenager. you're not even old enough to work. what will you do about money! where will you stay how will he support you if he's leaving his life too and you cant work...

see there is so much stuff that you have to think about. dont be crazy and runaway. trust every single person who has replied to you. it wont work out, stay with your family and wait till your old enough to realize how dangerous it could be.

Alrighty.
I'm about a year older than you, and hun, i know what it feels like.

i could have SWORN i was in love with this boy christmas time. now it's may, and he's not here. and i knew him in real life!

the thing about love when we're this age ((and i KNOW you don't wanna hear it)) is that it changes. and it's just natural. and you have to be careful. people online lie ALL the time. i mean, i have it up so that i'm 73, but gawd, i'm 14. you wouldn't know that if i didn't tell you though, would you?

You have to ask yourself:

Do i really want to throw my whole life away...never be able to come home again..for somebody who i may not like in person? somebody who may not like me in person? someone who could be somebody they say they arne't?

it's a huge step. and there is no rewind in your life.

just...use your head, not only your heart, hun.
best of luck.
god bless.
<3

Plz don't mess up ur life.be in love is over rated now a days.some people think they are in love with someone and only dated them 5 months or less.Besides your only thirteen yrs old and have plenty time to fall in love.you'll know when ur in love.right now wouldn't be it.way too young to be in love.

She never came back..
I really hope she didn't go along with it.
That would be awful.

You're so young for this, sister!! wake up!! youre just gonna ruine your life and your mom's dreams for you..

Stupidest thing I've ever read in my life. get over yourself, seriously. you want to ditch the person who carried you inside them for 9 months, went through labour for you, woke up whenever you cried (which no doubt was a lot) and looked after you and dedicated herself to putting YOU before her? Then go ahead, be a selfish brat. I'm sure if this is what you're intending on doing she wouldn't want you anyway. to know that some faceless angel can come and sweep you off your feet, and he's probably just a pervert anyway, but that you would give up your family for some "face".

If you wanna be world's biggest idiot, then do it. If you want to break hearts, then do it. If you want to potentially put yourself out there for rape and murder, then do it. No one's stopping you now.

p.s. I'm dead late on this :/

Your stupid! is all i have to say!!!

Don't do this please. I know love seems to last forever, but I've been in a relationship for 2 years, all sunshine and roses. And suddenly the feeling stopped. But my mom was there for me and helped me get through. If you run away no one will be there to help you, and relationships fail so easily. Don't go through with this, I beg you

Im sorry i totally disagree with you. I think its crazy and i mean i am worried for your safety! I think its a bad idea. I do this that there is somethings you have to do for love but i dont think this is one of them!