How Do I Forget?

Ive tried over & over again..I just cant forget..&& when I try, I just get stuck in his web of games.....How do I get over him?

See I try to forget..But like one night he will call && tell me he love me && misses me && the next night he calls & makes me feel bad like im the wrong person..&& he keeps going back && telling my friends he wants to be with me && he cant wait to see me next skool year && we are gonna go back out....if he keeps telling my friends this then why wont he tell me this..I cant play his game yet I always get caught up in it...I just want to forget!..&& if I cant forget..I just want to get over it!

Hey!
i knoe its real tough to forget ! n specially when sum1 liek wht he's doin is!!! i mean i went through teh same !!! nd it reali does hurt!!! i eman one day oh i love n then teh next i cant!!! he dosent get it tht u r d one goin thru teh sufferin i guess talkin to him bout this mighthelp! u sure sound like u love this guy!! just hav a nice talk to him bout this....i knoe its real real tough btu gurl u hav to manage! keepin it inside or discussin wid sum1 will not help... its just him who can help u get over this... but u dnt sound u wanna get over it eitehr...just ask him to be straight... n this guy really might love u but might hav sum prob tht he cant be totally commited wid u..maybe he's scared tht it might ruin evn ur friendship wid u...well communication is the key talk to him be straight n ask!!!

all i can hope n pray is everythin goes allright!! n cmon u can do it!!

cinderella28
PS- need more help mail me, cuz i knoe i've been thru teh same! n u wont believe it but im wid tht same guy !!! it wasnt easy to talk but i did after all n now we're together!!

Thats the thing I rather be with him, than forget about him...What me && him had was so real...My first love, my first EVERYTHING!..&& I cant let him go...we talked yesterday && for the first tme in a while we had fun laughing && just being okay...then he had to go && he kept asking me to call him baby..i just laughed && he told me he loved me && then he immediatly hung up..so I didnt get the chance to say it back...He knows how I feel about him...I used to know how he felt about me..He love/d me...He says he still does...but My heart keeps sayin "If he loves you, then why wont he man up & stop tearin you apart"
I do Love him && he ...does(I think) love me..well he used too..he wanted to marry me after high skool...we had it all planned out..He would join a colleg in georgia to go into the NFL..&& I was right there by his side going to get into my modeling career....Im still gonna model with or without him..I just wanted to be in his life...like he wanted..like we wanted.....

I have found that for me it is impossible to really forget so it makes it easier for me if i just except the fact that they will always be a part of me
then i have admitted that ill never truly get over them but i can accept it and move on slowly
that has worked in the past but right now im in a similar situation to yours and i dotn know exactly know what to do but maybe just talking to him and telling him how you feel will help you so that he wont have as much of an effect on you anymore

It is pretty hard to get over someone you really love! But If he is playing with you , or playing with the " i love you " than he does not love you at all...sorry..
MIne was saying it too often , but then i found out that, not only to me , so playing with words is one of the worse things the guy can do!!!
Time will help i think, and hope also!

Well I came out & told him how I felt..He cried & said he was sorry for hurting me && that he loves me & misses me ..okay that was sunday..today is tuesday && the funny thing is I havnt talked to him since that night..I try to call but he ignores my phone call..or says he will call back & never does...he says he wants to be with me again...yet he is playing games again...Im so confused..so sick of these tears..

No..see thats what everyone is saying!...He isnt a jerk..He wasnt always this way anyway...He is the sweetest guy Ive ever met. I love him regardless of anything!
&& yea i tried telling myself i deserve someone better..I remember how he was the first guy to ever make me feel so special , so alive....I just cant tell myself something I dont agree with </3