Far far away

My bf and i have been together for 2 monthes and were head over heels in love he was living with me for a month and then he went back home to conneticut and its really hard for me and idk wat to do all i wanna do is cry and the only time i dont cry is when im on the phone with him idk wat to do? has anyone else gone through this? wat should i do to get through the next 3 monthes?

You have to wait 3 months to see him? So find special little things to do for each other. Write to him, call him, webcam, voice chat, pictures, cd's, there are so many things you can do. Instead of thinking how horrible it is to be apart, think of how wonderful it will be when you see each other again.

I fully agree... think of a way to connect with him instead of crying all the time

Makes the time you will spend together even more amazing and special.

Well hes gone now his feelings for me are no more now i have a new guy but i already told the new guy tht itl be a very long time until i can ever love agan or trust agan for tht matter

Hun. You are 16. Really. You sound pretty dramatic. I kind of laughed when I read that. Because like 2 days ago you were sitting there saying how much you are "totally in love with him" and now you have a new guy. No doubt about it... you are rushing into things/love. Enjoy life a little bit and dont take things too fast for this next relationship.

Plus, 2 months after being together and you already moved in with him??? What?? You are 16. I hate to sound momish. But it sounds like your mom needs to be apart of this somewhere.

Feel free to PM me if you need anything else :)

The topic was posted 8 monthes ago and im not 16 anymore ill be 18 in 4 monthes

Correction it was posted 6 monthes ago

Im not overly dramatic ive just been hurt to many times and im not with him anymore so yea

Okay.. I have been in a long-distance relationship before. I think I can possibly help you out.

Have you ever heard the quote,
"I didn't know love until I met him.
And when distance pulled us apart,
I found out what true love was."

This is a very true quote. Yes, it's easy to love someone when they're sitting right next to you, but at times you don't have that luxury. Every relationship has a few problems every here and there. Being separated the way you are is just an obstacle for your love to over-come. And if you can't over-come it, then it simply wasn't meant to be. So if you don't believe you can handle waiting the time periods out until you two can see each other again, then you shouldn't be with this guy.

You have to be strong. You have to tough it out, darling. I'm sorry if that sounds mean but it's true. Just try not to let your entire world revolve around him. Hang out with your friends more, don't always sit by your phone waiting on his call. You have no idea how badly you'll be wasting your precious time by doing so. You won't be happy if that's all you ever do. So don't. Concentrate on school, talk to your boyfriend when you can, and go out and do something every once in awhile. Good luck!