I need some help...

  • Jordan
    16 years ago

    Ok so I've been dating my girlfriend, Jennie, for a month and 2 weeks, but I don't think that things will get better because I screwed up big time. I was not drinking and I wasn't on any drugs when I did this, but I kissed another girl. At first I told Jennie that the girl kissed me, but then I told her the truth. So I feel horrible and I need help on how to get her to believe that I will never do that again and that I really do love her and she is all I want and I want to be with her for the rest of my life. I love her so much and I can't lose her. Please will someone help me?

  • Babydoll
    16 years ago

    Ok...Try to plan something very special only that you and her share.Do something off the wall romantic.You might want a womens help.I hope it works.If she loves you, she may give you another chance.If it were me I may.and ask her how she felt when you told her about the kiss.And don't break her heart like that again.Because you only get one chance,maybe two,but never a third.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    If she were smart, she wouldn't forgive you. You're 16, you just started dating her, and you've already kissed another girl and then lied about it? I guarantee you this relationship isn't going anywhere, and I think it would be best for you to just end it right now. I know you feel that you love her, but I believe when you look back on this you will feel different.

    Don't get yourself into a relationship until you're mature enough to handle one- no offense intended there.

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    How did she react? Angry? Sad?

    Unfortunately because your relationship is still young, you've broken the trust between you both.

    You need to slowly regain that trust firstly, by keeping your lips for her only! After that you're just going to have to let her heal on her own but be there supporting her.

  • Lemon Square Bear23
    16 years ago

    Its gonna take some time for u to regain her trust. thats one thing w. a girl. when their guy means so much and they do that. we, girls are insecure about things like that. so start very small with gaining her trust and dont expcet her trust u rite off the bat.. start slow and build it up slowly....

  • your love is mine
    16 years ago

    You just told your self the answer when yu fist post it but you just didn't see it. to put it more clear just tell her what you told us. if you really mean this then she will se it in your eyes. that's all I can say. so hope you do the right thing and hope that everything works out for you.