Please help im lost

Last year my girlfriend accidently commited suicide

shortly afterwards my family moved halfway accross the country...
its coming up to the very day she died and i cant bare to think about it

it makes it worse that my old mates from where i used to live are all leaving/ getting angry at me for getting a new girlfriend over here.. (we've been together for 2 weeks)

everytime i get the chance i travel back to see her grave, but im still getting insults =[
i think about her everyday.. and write poems about help me deal with it

i feel so guilty

Your old mates need to realize that it is your life, not theirs and the only one who can make a decision about whether or not you are ready for a new relationship is you. You have nothing to feel guilty about, I'd make sure to stay out of contact with them if they are going to behave so hurtfully.

She isn't here anymore, of course you have to move on. don't feel guilty, they obviously aren't worth your time of day.

Agreed...she's gone, darling. i'm sorry for that loss...but you're allowed to keep living...let the dead bury the dead.

They will understand in time that you can't be single for the rest of your life because of this tragic event...if you ever want to be happy you'll NEED to move on. that doesnt mean forget, but liingering in the past isnt going to make you any happier. you shouldn't feel guilty...she wouldnt want you to be unhappy (i assume anyway..). try to ignore their insults the best you can.

An ex of mine comitted suicide a couple years ago. It took me awhile to get over it, but dwelling on something that just isn't there(like your relationship with this girl) is unhealthy and It'll get you no where fast. It's ok to grieve, trust me I still do, but live your life. Hers may have stopped but yours hasn't. I'm sorry for your loss. Hope I've helped

Thankyou for all your advice!!!
im gonna talk to my friends where i used to live about it, so they can see things from my point of view

truely thankyou

Wow....that's wow....sorry man I got no advice on this one hope u get better ",

Ooh...that's sad.. but you know what.. i think you shouldn't be guilty about yourself.. your ex is dead and its time to move on..you dont have 2 be a prison of your past.. and i think that your old friends arent your friends anymore.. they cannot drive your life..
and i think that your ex would be happy 2 see you happy and able to love again..:)

Awww thats rele sad and im rele srry. but i dont think u should feel guilty. its good youre moving on.

^^
thankyou

Her death hurt alot of people, particularly me and her's and mine best friend..
he went totally mad about it and had some real issues.

He's the person i'm getting the most grief from, he says i didnt deserve her and he always loved her, and blames me for moving away also. (he had to pick up the peices for everyone else)

i understand where he's coming from though. I loved her just as much as he says he does.
Back in 2005 i was writing poems on here about her.. and how i had been rejected by her.. and when i finally got the pleasure of being with her............=[

I was crushed and turning sucidal

I know i need to move on and everything, and i will never forget her.

He just dosnt seem to understand that! He needs to move on aswel!

Him saying all of this has made me realise i dont think i'll ever love anyone as much as i loved her...

I know that hurt you much but you shouldn't feel guilty because most likely she wouldn't want you to live your life alone and mourning about what was, she would want you to be happy and move on. Your friends should understand.

I had a boyfriend who committed suicide
and have lost 4 close friends through suicide.
The thing is that people who choose to take their
own lives are people who spent their time suffering in silence.
People always say that suicide is the cowards way out
but I mean it must take serious guts and bravery to make such a sacrifice!!
As hard as it is you just have to try move
on because thats what your girlfriend would have wanted.
After my boyfriend committed suicide I always felt so guilty when I dated other guys
but am now dating someone who makes me so happy and I am so in love with him.
We've been together for about 7 months and you just need to know that things will get easier to deal with as time goes by.
If you ever want someone just to talk yo then feel free to pm me.

Fuc ur old friends...face the reality hunny therez no true friends in this world..follow ur heart...if u love the girl tell her what happened to ur ex..i understand that u cant stay single all ur life...do u love the girl u with right now?well keep visitin her in her grave...she's dead..and she was ur girl..theres nuttin bad about seein her when theres a chance..u should feel guilty...how many months or weeks passed after u met this other girl?