WHAT SHOULD I DO??

  • juana
    16 years ago

    Me and my boi fwend have been dating for nine months,but he's changing schools.he wants to stay with me and i feel the same way,but thats the problem.

    i always had a issue trusting him with other girls cuz...well..he's a FLIRT!!!He doesnt like me having my guy fwends #,But i understand cuz most of my guy fwends like me.So i dont have their #,BUT he thinks he's allowed to have his ex's # and they are juz like my guy fwend except their all ova him!!

    ANYWAYS were gonna be at differant school's and i wont be with him to stop him from messing with other gurls.Some of my fwends go to the school he's going to,But i dont know if its right to have them watch him???I REALLY CARE 4 HIM...SO WAT SHOULD I DO???HELP!!

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    If you really think it's going to be an issue than just break up with him, hun. I've been in a situation similar to this one before. My ex-boyfriend was actually moving from Arkansas all the way to Las Vegas though.. and he wanted us to stay together. I loved him too death, wanted the same, but I told him I just couldn't do it. I was afraid the distance would tear us apart and yes, I would never know if he was messing with other girls. For all I knew he could be dating me and some Las Vegas chick at the same time.

    And as I said before.. we aren't together anymore. If you feel that trust is going to be an issue than break up with him and just stay friends. You can't have a healthy and good relationship if you're always afraid he's with another girl. It just doesn't work like that. You said your guy friends like you. So finding someone else shouldn't be an issue. Good luck.

  • limp
    16 years ago

    What is it with the 'fwend'.

    anyhow, ask him why he doesn't feel comfortable with you having guy friends, yet it's perfectly acceptable for him to see his ex-girlfriends. if he finds that fair, his idea of 'trust' is sordid and you shouldn't see someone who's all about them and not you.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    What is it with the 'fwend'.

    ^
    Rofl.. I was thinking the same.
    But ya know.. trying to be nice.
    And give some good advice.

  • juana
    16 years ago

    It's hard to say good bye,but i guess thats wat i should do...I'm sorry things didnt work out wit your ex either.I guess your right when you say i should just be friends with him..It's juz i'm really gonna miss him being here with me.
    -Thanx for the advice

  • juana
    16 years ago

    Anyways thanx ppl for the advice!!It really helps,im thinking of ending it,but i guess being friends is the best advice i should take...im really gonna miss him and no matter wat happens he will always be my boo.
    -THANX ALOT!!!