Jelous much??

Ok so i have this boyfriend and he still talks to his ex girlfriend after she treated him like shit and put him down. i hate the fact that he is talking to her but i understand that she was there for him thru some rough time. but sometimes its scary because she has her as her number 3 on myspace and im his number 2. and thats not the only problem he has this neighbor she is 14 and she chooses to "challenge" our relationship last time i checked the relationship was between me and him not her! so i dnt want to be controlling or anything bhut since wen can a 14y/o justify a relationship? i hate being the jelous type but im scared that he will leave me for his ex but he said he loves me too much to leave me for anyone. i believe him and all but its just i hate that he still talks to her!

Yes i know but the scary part is that he is getting closer to that 14y/o she has somehow became his little sister which bothers me very much

Your profile says you're 23... why would you ever, ever care about what a 14 year old has to think?

the ex part I can see why it's annoying. the myspace list he has. it'd bug me too. but if he tells you he only wants you, then believe him. he's saying these words to you. not her. so, try not to worry so much anymore.

He said me and him are meant to be! i believe him and i trust him its just his ex that i dont trust! and well im going to a party with my ex today and i feel kinda bad because im doing something worse but hes the one encouraging me to go with him...he scared my jelousey might get in the way but idk how to stop being so jelous

"Your profile says you're 23... why would you ever, ever care about what a 14 year old has to think? "

why if that's not the most ignorant thing i've read all day.

"why if that's not the most ignorant thing i've read all day."

I must have typed it wrong. I was talking about her problem.

I'm assuming her bf is close to her age. seeing as to why someone in their 20s would be interested in someone who's barely a teenager. it makes sense not to get so worried about losing someone, to a person so young.

Yea i know but i love him and the girl has a bf and im just trying to find a way tot ry and get myself not to be that jelous anyone with any sugestions?

It's between you and him and what you 2z think, if she blabs out her opinion all you have to listen to is her mouth going blah blah blah

"I must have typed it wrong. I was talking about her problem.

I'm assuming her bf is close to her age. seeing as to why someone in their 20s would be interested in someone who's barely a teenager. it makes sense not to get so worried about losing someone, to a person so young."

I understand, you did type it a little harshly, but obviously you didn't mean it in that sense.

as for the original post: what point is there coming to us about it? we are not in your relationship. she is a 14 year old girl, it's not a threeway or in-for-all, so tell your boyfriend you feel that she is imposing. If he doesn't do anything about it, question if you really want to stay in a relationship with someone who won't defend you. about his ex: there is no point being jealous just because he is friends with someone, that's incredibly controlling and unfair. imagine he said you couldn't talk to a guy you were close friends with because he was paranoid? you have to look at it from a "friendly" perspective. you don't want to lose all of your friends, don't expect him to lose his. If she treated him like shit, it's his choice to still talk to her, so it's obviously something beyond you not wanting him to hang out with her. If he's willing to forgive her, you should be too.

Ok thanks guys its been a couple of days and my jelousey has not been a problem i have taken everything u guys have said and used most of it! so im thankfull that u would take a time out of ur lives to write on here and thank you i have controlled my jelousey like i said previously and me and him have been really happy! thank again everyone!