What should I do?

  • Jamie Lorraine
    16 years ago

    There is this guy that I have very strong feelings for who is also one the my bestest friends...He knows this and has told me that he has feelings for me too...the problem?

    Well his girlfriend and him just broked up because she was treating him like sh**. and I am also talking to this other guy but, I don't share the same feelings for him as he does for me. I have no clue how to tell this other guy that I rather be with my friend..I am like over heels for this guy....he is everything to me and I would do anything for him. He is everything that I have ever wanted in a guy and so much more...My heart is screaming go for it but my head is saying stay away. He is the type of guy that every girl dreams about...he is so sweet, loving, caring, funny and goregous!!!!! :)

    I don't know how to tell the guy that likes me that I don't feel what he does. and I guess you can say that I am in a love triangle.... Help me please because this guy doesn't derserve to be hurt and I want to let him the easy way.

  • Something Diabolical
    16 years ago

    I'm currently in a situation like yours
    this girl from college has told me she's fallen for me but i just dont see her like that
    to be honest i dont see anyone like that atm
    i need time to be single, life is complicated enough without being in a relationship

    anyways... tell the truth, its what i have done and things have worked out fine

    just tell him that your in love with somone and tell him you dont want it to effect the friendship you have at the moment.. (if u still want it that is)

    use the kindest language you can think of
    i'm sure he will understand

    if he dosnt.. im sure he will get over it =]

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Just tell the damn guy that you don't love him! You can't help how you feel. The guy you love shares the same feelings for you.. do NOT ruin it because you're afraid of hurting someone else's feelings. If you would truly do anything for him, then you can do this. It shouldn't be such a problem. If you wait around too long.. your love may think that you have something for this other guy and go for someone else. You can't let that happen.

    There are more fish in the sea. Just tell him you've thought about it, and you only want to maintain a friendship with him and that's it. That you are in love with someone else. Period. He'll get over it and move on, I promise.

  • MissMeg
    16 years ago

    I am in a situation similar to yours, the guy is my best guy friend. He knows that i like him and i know that he likes me. But i just broke up with my bf, and my best guy frined wants to get with me, but i don't know. what to do.