I need some advice please

  • Colby
    16 years ago

    Ok let me explain the outline
    Im a freshman in high school and I feel more than connected and love this senior. She is leaving in a week. But i would still be able to see her cause of some certain circumstances. I talked to her last night and she said she felt the same way and gave me a ton of compliments many of which i returned. We talked about it for awhile and we both agreed that the only thing that was stopping us was the age difference. Which im 15 and shes 18.
    I really dont want to give up on this girl, i feel amazing when im with her and dont want to leave her side. I feel like there could be a huge future ahead of us. I know she feels some what of the same way. I feel that maybe if things were still going the way they are going that we might be able to hook up. I really like this girl and dont want to leave her.

    I dont know what to do... i need your help. Please respond with any advice

  • kimly
    16 years ago

    Long distance relationships might work for you guys.
    if you guys hook up, than just see what goes from there (:

  • Ari
    16 years ago

    If you are both willing to put in the efforts, and are both ready to face all sorts of peer comments, then go for it. That sort of age gap can be hard but if you guys really want it and are willing to work for it, i think it will work.
    I hope this helped.
    xo
    ariel

  • dandelion
    16 years ago

    Well..age difference doesnt really matter.. though its kinda weird cause your'e the guy and your'e younger.. but anyway.. if you 2 are really serious about each other..no matter what the circumstances are..i think you guys will work it out.. after all she's feelin' the same 4 you..
    but i dont think the hook up thing is a good idea..=(

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    You guys are only 3 years apart, that isn't so bad. If you really care for her, then what's stopping you? Nothing. You shouldn't let this get in the way of the future you feel like you two will have if you keep this relationship going.

    Just be sure your parents are okay with it.. since you are still a minor and she no longer is one. That's the only problem you're probably going to face.

  • Colby
    16 years ago

    Yeah I agree. I mean my parents and her parents are really good friends. So the topic of my parents not knowing her is not there. But im still not sure.... i feel like if i try hard enough that maybe things could go.

    But what if things dont work out... i dont want to loose the friendship we have

  • Colby
    16 years ago

    Yes well im hoping everything can go ok. I mean i feel that she wants to move on.... just... the age thing is a wall between her and I

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    I say don't let age stop you. The only time I honestly think age should be a problem is when like, you're somewhere around being 20 + years apart <.> That's just kind of weird. But that's not the case, so don't worry about it!

    So.. if you two really care for each other, talk to your parents about it. Tell them both what you want and that you really care for her. Don't let your fear of ruining your friendship get in the way. If things don't work out between you two.. then they won't. But if your friendship is strong enough then you'll remain friends.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    I think you should just move on. Age difference aside (that debate has been trampled all over several times), you are at different points in your life. She is going to college, you are still barely into high school. In order for a relationship to work there has to be some sort of mutual ground, and in this case there isn't. You aren't actually dating her, right? If that's the case, then I would say it's better not to start. It sucks, but that's what I think.

  • Christina
    16 years ago

    The age difference rele isnt that big...i just turned 15 and im daten a 17 year old. theres no age between us it seems.

  • CassandraXVeronicaXONealaXLawson
    16 years ago

    I got marrid by parental consent when was 16 to a 22 yr old t kinda worked out ok but with us im not saying this is u to of course but we just foundthat we have nothing in commen and i do admitt hat i love him but yeah age di get in our way that and we rushed into it