When everything goes wrong?

I have no clue on how to fix my mess.
One girl hates me and she is taking everyone away from me. My parents just don't get it. My "best friend" is not acting ever like a friend. I have no way to talk to my "brother" and i need him to be here. But the biggest mess I have right now is this...

I like a guy at my school but I know im not his type, for the fact he like girly-girls and i'm nothing like that, but i keep hoping that maybe he will come around and give me a chance but how would that even be I can't even say hi to him .
And He looks someone like the guy i was last with who I am still in love with, I try to dame hard to get him out of my head but it's like he is glue and it kills me to say I love him because I know that it would never happen, and he gave up on me so much , and when ever i talk to him I can't help be see his girlfriend in my head kissing him , when it should be me. And the sad thing is he is my "Mr.Perfect" .
I have no clue what to do everything is such a mess.
Help?!

Okay, first off -- for the girl, she can kiss your arse. Half the junior class and sophmore class at my school ALONE hate me; I'm fine with it. You just have to deal with it. Now for taking people away from you? Could you elaborate? Like who and how?

Second: Parents never get it, okay? And I'm assuming brother is in parentheses because this is like a really close friend or something that's like family to you? If he isn't listening, and your best friend isn't acting like your friend anymore, instead of b_tching about it here, why not go TALK to them? MAKE them listen to you, because when you need someone to talk to -- that's what they're supposed to be there for.

And third: Just because this guy supposedly likes "girly-girls" and you're not one, doesn't mean you don't have a chance. My summer ... fling ... person ... -- it's complicated, okay? -- he liked traditional chicks. All well mannered and crap like that -- I'm the total opposite, but he still fell for me. So don't let that ruin your hopes, okay? And if you want a chance, you're gonna have to suck it up and step up. TALK to him! You won't get anywhere without doing so.
BUT, considering that he looks like a guy that you're still stuck on? That's saying something. Is it possible that the majority of the attraction is BECAUSE he looks like this person? As for this second guy, you just have to give it time. Befriend the first guy, and just let time slowly remove this second guy from your mind, okay? If he has a girlfriend, it's over. There isn't anything you can do but just let it go and accept it.

As for the first guy you talked about, until you get over the other guy, don't make any romantic notions/moves towards him, because it wouldn't be fair to him if he ended up falling for you (WHEN you talk to him, of course! "Hi" is just the gist of it!) and you still had feeling for someone else at the same time. So simply befriend him first and see how it goes, okay?

I totally agree with her ^^^

Ha ha me too^^
and trust me i have had experiance in that area

Well the whole the B_tch trying to take my friend away is no more. So that makes me HAPPY!

For the guy that goes to my school,I'm trying really really really hard to say that one word "HI" but like for today(something he always does) He will look over at me or were I hang out at & just look,&& when the bell rings to go to class he doesn't even look at me, he starts to play with his hair & waits for his to say something to him && he looks at him , he can't see to look at me when walking by me.

&& for the guy That I'm not so over well I'm not going to do much for the fact that If i do anything i would just put me more down then I already am .
For the fact that they look a like not really, they just have the same skin color,hair color, and eye color. The rest of you they are ,are soooo dame diff.
I can't really get my head on right, with all this. I have tried to slow down && just sit back && have life come to me, but it never really works like that for me, because some how no matter what I can't help but NOT want to sit back and relax.
But,yea I mean it's like my brain is in the right side of my body and the rest it is on the other side of the world.
It's really confusing, no point to even ask about it .
:)

I so forgot about the "brother" thing. No he is here for me no matter what,and you are right he is like ONE of my best friends. I got my phone tookin away && my computer has a bug (i'm at school writing all this haha) && i have no way to call him to be like "hey come down here I need a hug && some one to talk too" (he lives on the other side of the beach. Sucks much ?
Buttt, yea it's just killing me for the fact I really need to talk to him && i have no way of doing it.

The brother thing, then, I can't help it, because I'm not magical :) Can't telepathically send you over to him, but hey, for the talking to the guy thing --

JUST DO iT!

Don't think about it. If you see him, you don't even have to go up to him. A simple wave or a big hello will do it. AFTER, you talk to him, then you can start thinking about it -- and like a lot of people I know, that's the time you'll probably go, OMG DiD i JUST DO THAT? or start freaking out. But hey, at least at the point, you did it, right?

It'll get easier after the first couple of times :) And then you can start on short, casual conversations.

I would do that but it's like how can i say Hi if he doesn't even look at me when he walks by me ?
Thats the only problem I have.