My friend is trying to steal him away!

  • MorbidCupcake
    16 years ago

    Theres this guy I really like and he really likes me, but we're gonna wait til Im 16 to date cuz hes 17 rite now and Im only 15 and Im not allowed to date til im 16. But for now we hang out and talk all the time. And my friend is starting to call him now too, and text him, and she told me she likes him too. She always copies me in everything I do, what i wear, what music i like, even guys i like, but this is different i dont jus like him as a crush i really really like him and he feels the same for once in my life. she says shes not gonna try taking him from me, and i dont wanna end a friendship over something as stupid as this, but now she calls him and hes getting annoyed and he thinks if he talks to her ill get mad. how do i tell her to back off without starting a big fight? i hate this!

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    If he doesn't wish to talk to her, why doesn't he just say so? You just need to be upfront and tell her that she is crossing lines and if it continues you will just walk away from the friendship. If you are real friends she will see your point of view and not be offended. Don't play games just be upfront.

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    16 years ago

    See I have had something like that happen to me before but I was also one time dating the person. But also a little before friends tried to do that...but I told them how I felt...and if they were real friends they wouldn't be doing that to you and if he likes you and is willing to wait till your 16 then he would tell them hey I really like her and I am not into you guys and we can be friends but that is all.
    But that is just me.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    Why would you even want a friend like that? I mean, I'm not trying to be rude, but I've never seen the reasoning. But if you don't go upfront with her -- she's gonna keep annoying him. So you straight up tell her. If she starts to trip, you have to let her know that she doesn't have a right to when you and this guy really have something that you don't want her to screw up. Why do you even let her copy you?
    There was a girl that did that before, because she felt threatened by me. That's the only logic I can find for your own FRiEND doing that. You need to talk to her. If she turns it into a fight when you've already told her once, she doesn't deserve someone like you.

  • dandelion
    16 years ago

    Oooh..maybe the guy should be the one to speak to her and tell her to stop after all he's annoyed with her right?? and he likes you too..
    .. and hey.. you call her a friend..?? well..she's not.. a friend would never want to steal something or even someone from you.. so if i were you i would not be friends with her..

  • Hayley
    16 years ago

    Well if he is talking to her he aint worth it now is he?
    Ask yourself that question 5 times
    Is she a friend or a kniving little swine?