Distant from my brothers and my parents

I've been thinking about my brothers and my parents more and more now that summer is coming now. I feel upset. My dad is telling my mom that she cannot see the boys unless he is there. So my mom said she is going to play that game right back at him, that Doug and Marla cannot see me unless my father is there. I feel really bad because my brothers are being fought over. I should mention now that my parents are divorced. I love my brothers so much, it hurts. It hurts to see them call me by my real name not "Sissy" like they would always used to do. My mom calls once in a while. My dad won't call me unless I call him to talk. My mom and dad are telling me different stories so I don't know which one is telling the truth or not. So I don't tend to believe them much. It takes a while to gain back my trust. The thing is I want to tell my mom and dad to just grow up and share the boys. They aren't toys to be fought over, they are human beings that need to be LOVED. I should know how it feels to be not wanted. I would know how my brothers feel having parents fight over you all the time.
I just want it all to end. I want them to both just listen and just think about what their doing. I love my brothers a lot and I hate seeing them like this.

help. Please?

Just to tell you, I don't live with my neither of my parents or brothers. My brothers are all younger then me and I'm their only sister. I live atleast 400 miles away from them. I live in one state and they live in another.

Gee!...thats really sad! I know how u r feeling I love my siblings and can't imagine living without them! well its difficult i mean i dont know what to say...do ur brothers love u the same way u love them? if they do i think all of u must talk to ur parents and try to make them realise what they r doin. I know its not so easy as it sounds but still u can try.

You need to sit down and confront both of your parents, saying how childish they're acting and how it affects you and your brothers... It's true that they're divorced but that doen't mean that you're not a family anymore, even if it feels that way.

The thing is they bicker when their together about stuff, so I was thinking about maybe writing a letter to both saying the same thing, and then sending it to them.

Would that be a possibility?

Look my parents did the whole childish act crap, except they at least let me pick where I wanted to live. Screw writing them a letter, tell them how you feel to their face. Itll have a bigger impact and hopefully make them realize how dumb their acting.

I am really sorry for you.I am distant now from my dad and my brother.I really miss them both.