This is not a sex topic if so oh well

Ok if you had a teenager how would you discuss sex with them you know i dont want to hav to go in detail but im raising a 14 im 19 i have been threw it already and I have a child of my ownnd i really dont want her to do the same dont get me wrong i love my little girl but i could have waited a little longer teenagers are in a diffrent stage now i know of kds that had kids at 12 i dontwant the same4 her

There isn't really anything to say to the kid,i mean he/she will figer it out on them self on what it is.
But I told myself when I have kids I'm going to be like a mom but a friend.
I will let my kids do what they want if I know what it is and who it is with and were,&& as long as they do good in school .
Like I wouldn't care if they had sex ,i would just want to know with who and if they were safe, && if they ever so did do drugs, I'm not going to say no because I do them and I have done them, && I'm not going to be like my parents && when they tell me the have never done that stuff but their Yearbook's say so diffrent. So Yea.
IF it came down to me && my teenager && sex, i wouldn't really have much to say unless they asked me about it.

Well, my sister is currently 14 and my parents have decided to talk to her. I did and she said they had a sex ed class at school. It was short, and brief but informative. So chances are she/he already knows the jist of it. I think the best thing to do is to say, hey, if you have questions, ask away. It might not be neccessary to go into a full blown talk.
good luck
xo
ariel

A big thing is to learn to discipline WHILE maintaining a friendship, I don't have any trust with my mom and i don't feel i can go to her with problems or secrets and i've been hurt and gone through a lot of crap and i've had to go through it alone!

So if you keep a good relationship, she will trust you enough to come to you with her feelings about boys and such and you can help her stay safer!!

Friendship comes when your kids are old enough to take care of themselves, while they are in my house and under my care I am not their friend, I am their parent. Exactly as it should be.

You have to keep an open dialog from a young age. My niece started asking questions at 7 and 8, you can't just wait until they are teenagers, especially now days. There are lots of books and online information and also your own common sense and experience. The most important thing is to just be honest.