I love him he loves me too just loves her moree....

I love this guy with my life we have been friends since pre-school.
And now i told him that i loved him and we have sex and he knocked me up but it was a tubal pregnancy so i have to get rid of it.
And now he still likes to have sex with me but nothing i do seems to make him want to go out with me.
And i yelled at his ex cuz she spreed rumors that he raped and beat her and he still likes her.
And she started shit with me so i talked back but now hes mad at me i dont kno wat to say to make him my friend again..

Plz someone help me im about to let go....

I love him so much and ive tried to hard just to get him to notice it but nothing i do ever seems to make anyting differnt between me and him
And he tells me he loves but but he loves her more.
And when i went trough the pregnancy he wouldnt talk to me....he just ignored me like i was nothing and he dosent understand.
I dont kno wat to do anymore......ive made him my everything and iver tried so hard.

God.. WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU WANNA BE WITH A GUY LIKE THAT??!?!!?

All he does is abuse you! He abuses your emotions and uses you for sex.. from what I can see, that's all he wants from you. He only wants your body and not your heart. Why would you put yourself through something like that? It's stupid! And what the hell.. you're only 14. You shouldn't even be going through... crap like this at your age. You need to have a NORMAL relationship.

There are TONS more fish in the sea. Ones that'll actually treat you like a woman instead of a whore. If he wants to be an idiot and date this other girl, then let him have her. Don't try to stop him.. he should be the one trying to stop you from leaving.

Sometimes you have to forget how you feel and remember what you deserve....

Umm....hon he is using you

he might say he loves you but...he is only having sex with you...not a real relationship

He wants you for sex.
pretty simply shown right there..

I agree with Kayla.

He's just using you. Go find someone else who will actually treat you like a woman, not like... nevermind, that would be really rude to say.

You deserve so much better. If hes in love with you, hell want you for your mind, heart, and soul, not just your body. Especially since you're only 14. Think about it. He already got you pregnant once and ignored you completely. You dont want somebody whos going to treat you like that, especially because when you're a mother its going to be your JOB to protect your kids from people who act like he does.

Move on, love.

I understand wat you guys are saying and ive heard it many times but theres alot more behind the story.
I cant just move on ive neverbeen able to i cant let go and im afraid to be alone.
I love him and have for a while, my dad just left i had to kill my child and my bestfrined and me have been fighting and im afraid of letting go cuz the last guy i tried giving even some space she took him she broke my heart and...and my bestfriend hates me and im being replaced in everyones life..

Jeesh... so much drama!
You'll find someone else! He isn't the only guy out there, you know. Maybe your friends are getting frustrated with you because you just don't see that!

FIND SOMEONE BETTER!
Trust me.. you'll be thanking us later.
Stick with this guy and he'll only keep hurting you.. then you'll probably end up trying to kill yourself.
And you don't want that.
Leave this guy for good and you'll live a much better life.

Yes he might say he loves you ... but sometimes it's just words, guys use to break your heart....

In your case he is using the words to have sex with you.....

Believe me he does not deserve you!!!!

Do your best and get over him!!!

I've been thru very simuar hun, i was going out with someone i shouldnt of been legally going out with we broke up then things got complicated he got me pregnant i had a new bf he had a new gf, i was very sick and the baby didnt survive and now months later things still arent exactly over between us n he still says he loves me and part of me loves him, i know how hard it is, so if u need someone to talk to pm me i'm here.

It seems this month is the month where everyones worlds are falling apart, the hard part is being strong and trying to work out what's right, it does sound like his using you although i can understand him freaking at u being pregnant if his the same age as you, i think you can do way better than him and while your heart may be saying u love him its going to be mighty hard but u need to try to move on.

"I understand wat you guys are saying and ive heard it many times but theres alot more behind the story.
I cant just move on ive neverbeen able to i cant let go and im afraid to be alone."

your 14. people telling you "many times" is probably because people can see what you can't see. for one, your age. for two, you find yourself so in love with him that you cant even get a clear view. all you see is your life crashing down and how horribel things are. you need to step back and actually take a look at things.

I'm sure if you had a friend who was going throught this, you would be telling that friend the same things that are being told to you.

Stop letting your life be consumed by things like this. you are 14, you shouldn't be going through any of it. Give yourself some breathing room before you get tossed around in that sort of drama.

"I cant just move on ive neverbeen able to i cant let go and im afraid to be alone."

You are alone, he is doing nothing for you, only for himself. You can't let go because you don't want to. I know I would hold on for life to a guy who will have sex with me but not be with me, refuses to talk to me once he knocks me up and is in love with some other girl. i know you are only 14, but you still have to have some sense of intelligence, atleast I would hope.

You're 14 and having to abort a baby? stop being a slut for people who say they love you, you are in no way ready to be having sex.

good god the immaturity of teens these days. learn to love yourself before anyone else will. if you act like a doormat, you'll be treated like one.
and forget about the guy, he doesn't love you.

Yes!
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