If love is so nice why does it hurt?

My boy left me for a who*e
i dont know what to do
help!!!

.. Well if he left you, he left you.
Get over it and move on.
You're young, you'll find someone eventually.

Hun...
These things happen.
I know it's hard, but someday.. you'll find someone worth your affection.
You'll forget all about this jerk and his stupid girlfriend. You'll be happy. They'll break up. He'll realize what he's missing and you won't even care.

Shouldn't this be in the love section?

Anyhoww,
If he left you -- it's over.
You accept it, and just let life take its course.
If he left you for a ---re,
He's not worthy of you anyway.
And obviously has horrible taste :)

Simple.
KTS.
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Getting over it will take a long time. . i suggest chick flicks n fat food. .
love hurts. . but you can only take it one day at a time. .
eventually the pain will go away. .

If love is so nice why does it hurt? You say?

It obviously was not love.

"Shouldn't this be in the love section?"

No. It's in the right board.

anyway, I know how you feel. the girl I was with left pretty much so she can talk to perverts and losers online and try to meet them. makes sense?none whatsoever... but I can't do anything. I still see her all the time though. and I do go over to her house still bout every week. we're still friends. but I still get upset about it.

just write your feelings down when you need to. it helps.and just find other things to keep your mind off it.

Im sorry this happened to you, and i know it hurts but time will heal everything.... cry all you need to cry and then when you can cry no more wipe your tears and get up and move on.... its part of my life... but i know how you feel, it hurts and no one knows the pain like you do.... but give it time and you will find someone better....
smile!!

Thanks to everyone
your all right

Thanks
i will just get on with my life

but the reason it upset meso much is because we went out for over half a year and the who*e was my freind, atleast i thought.

she called me yesterday and tried to tell me that she didnt steal him
i hung up
now at school she says i called her an cursed her out

all my friends exiled her from the group

Hmm.. like i say, there's plenty of other fish in the sea.

don't get attach to things, just live day per day. don't expect things to last. don't believe in forever. be happy you have it while you do. and when you don't. get over it, and move on. life has so many pages. just keep on turning them.

These things happen. You have to lose a few bad seeds to find the right. Even thought you may think he was the right one, there is someone better out there for you. You will get over that guy, it doesnt last forever.

I'm sorry that happened to you, but you'll find somebody new, somebody who will appreciate you and won't leave you for a stinky nobody. cheer up sweets, there will be others, some horrible and break your heart and some amazing. this is only the beginning, it sucks yeah, but it's okay. you will be okay :) be strong<3

Just think.....you go through the bad to get to the good! You will meet someone one day that treats you like a goddess and you will look back and laugh at this a**hole.

I'm still mad at what he did but i'm friends with him
i wont go out with him ever again

i really wish there werent so many liars in this world
i've been dumped for her before and the as*hole promised that he was different and would never dump me for her, but he did...

its funny his name is ben and ben in japanise means phecies
so he is shi*

If he dumped you for her then u know right then and there that that is not the type of person you want to be in love with. I know right now it hurts, and time WILL heal your pain. There is someone out there who will treat you right so don't dwell on this a**h*** cuz he isn't worth your tears.
best wishes, Meghan

Well thats terrible....i was with a guy like that for a year in a half....like he would leave me for all theses sluts and everything. and its sad i kept goen back to him....so you might be friends with him now but DONT go back out with him....hes a jerk and always will be!

I WILL NEVER GO BACK OUT WITH THAT PEICE OF SH*T!!!!!!!

I dated a guy who cheated on me numerous times,
we were together for about 2 years and when I confronted him he use to beat me up.
Its just not worth it,
you will find someone genuine,
you just have to be patient.
keep your friends close and always remember that guys
will come and go but your friends are forever!!
You're to good for him
and hes gonna feel like a real idiot when he comes to terms with what he lost!!

You know lovw should hurt, because when you love, you love a human and humans hurt each other.

Love is always going to hurt because eventually it ends.
Either they leave you, you leave them or one of you dies first. But it will always hurt. there is no stopping it.

Just keep on going on with ur life...it can be sad..but someone else will cure your heart someday out of know where...i know how you feel gurl..it happened to me before...imagine bein with sum1 and then they shit on you with another girl or somethin right in front of ur face and u stay with them..thats love...but if he left u for some hoe then that means he never loved u..right?

I think it's easier to say move on when it's not you. It's important to move on, trust me, I know. But no matter how old you are, if you've invested so much of yourself in the relationship and you've given yourself completely (emotionally) to someone, it takes time to get over. My advice is to try to find time for yourself and to keep your mind off of him and next time... guard your heart. Don't too soon, but don't be afraid to love.

We are too too alike sweetie. me and my guy only dated for a month. but we fucked 6 times. and everytime he told me i'm beautifukl. told me this told me that and filled my head with all these LIES. then he left me for this jerk and she hates me. probibly dated him to spite me. and she was once my best friend. people can be such a$$wholes. the world is full of them. Life will go on; but its only natural to feel pain for your lose of a friend and boyfriend,. but life will go on sweetie

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I believe love is nice if you have found the right one which i know i have