Should i let him go

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Okay so my ex... he saw this video on my myspace and he messaged me and told me that he was so sorry for hurting me and that he did care about me and he still does but he said he thinks that i can do better than him and i told him that wasnt tru cus i still loved him and he is confused about what to do but he does still care about me of that i am sure...
    so should i keep tryin cus i really want him back..
    or should i just let go.. i would love some advice

    my heart is tellin me to not let go

  • XCarmenX
    16 years ago

    What video did he see??

    well i kinda know what your going through...my ex bf would always tell me that i deserved someone way better than him, and that he couldnt believe that i was actually with him...but i just kept telliing him over and over that i loved him and he was the only one i wanted to be with. we ended up braking up becuz he also had doubts and didnt really know what he wanted...

    he kept telling me that he cared for me and that he still liked me but that he was just confused about some stuff....i didnt want to break up and wanted him back so bad but he wouldnt budge...i kept trying and trying until i just finally gave up....i was hurt for a long time but i ended up finding an even more amazing guy who truly loves me

    just let go let him be let him straighten out his thoughts....soon he'll realize he needs you and if he doenst then you'll know you made the right decision in just moving on. give it time and soon you'll find someone else someone better

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    The video on my myspace... it was a lil clip from youtube

    \http://youtube.com/watch?v=2MPKbYQDUwo

    here is the link if u want to check it out

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    First off, you tell him (or not...it's just what I'd do haha) that it's not his decision whether you deserve better than him -- you're the one that'll have to be with him if you choose to do so. And you have -- so make him see that it's like if you told him that he deserved better than you. He'd disagree, no? It's the same concept.

    As for his confusion, give him some time to figure it all out. You just sit back, and wait. You don't have to make a decision right this instant. Things like this take time.

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Hunni... here is what I have to say about the situation.
    He is your ex for a reason. Obviously you two weren't working the first time, so what makes you expect it's going to the second time?
    Something is probably going to happen that'll make you two break up all over again and the hurt is just going to be worse..

    I say just stay friends. You CAN do better than him.

  • chaye
    16 years ago

    Thank ya'll so much for the advice but we are not gonna get back together.. their is a guy that cares for me more than the other guy does and ya'll were rite if we did go back out it would only turn out bad..

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    Good. I'm really glad to hear it.
    I wish the best of luck to you and this new guy.

  • Amanda Frost
    16 years ago

    Do what makes you happy. if he wants you back too then go for it. if you dont then you will always wonder "what would have happend? would we have been happy?" and you dont wanna live wondering all the time...do you?