HELPPPP SUm1 says theyre gonna kill themselves

  • Paige
    19 years ago

    This guy is threatning 2 kill himself cause i wont go out wit him, i need major help fast !!!!!!
    WAt do i say ???
    HELP !!!!!!!!!

  • In_Your_Eyes
    19 years ago

    I have the same problem right now, but it's my ex, and he wants me to go back out with him. He is a very insecure person. When he told me that he wanted to die I said "No, you don't, you just want to be saved" and it's true. He doesn't really want to die. Do you have feelings for this guy? What kind of person is he? I think you should assure him that dying would not be the answer to his problems . Assure him that you would be sad if he killed himself, and let him know that he would leave problems for friends and family. Most people that say they want to kill themselves don't really want to die, they just want someone to save them. He must have some strong feelings for you if it is affecting him in that way. Just talk to him about it.

  • Paige
    19 years ago

    Ok, now he saidd he wont kill himself if i run away wit him
    Wat do i do, i really dont no
    :( HELP ME

  • xRachelx
    19 years ago

    I reckon this guy is just trying to get what he wants. He probably wont do anything unless he is known to be at all suicidal. Has he had problems in the past or something?

  • Paige
    19 years ago

    I dont no, ive only known him 4 about a month

  • Hope
    19 years ago

    This guy can't be serious about suicide just 'cause u won't "run away (with) him." What did it sound like when he said it to you???
    But i am confused, is it a 'date' or 'run away with him' and never come back???
    Lol, i need more information!!!

    But in anycase, let me ask you this. Do you want to go out with him??? Do you trust him???
    For all we know, he could be a FRONT for a major kidnapping of you. Don't go if it makes you feel uncomfortable 'cause u don't know what he COULD do to you. Furthermore, you only know him for about a month and he seems to be highly suicidal, which makes him ESPECIALLY DANGEROUS. Be smart and play it safe. Good luck and take care!!! 8)

  • Casey
    19 years ago

    Paige is this the same guy you had sex with? This guy sounds nuts! What would the point of you two running away together be when you're too young to even get married? you should really tell someone who's not twelve... or under 21.

  • Ophilia
    19 years ago

    I have been in the same situation.... If I were you I would tell an adult or your parents. I wouldn't go through this alone.... Also try not to be alone with him. Just be careful sweetie. IM me if you need to talk ShadowDaughter16 (AIM).

  • Kylie
    19 years ago

    Just say that ur dad won't let you or something make up bull!

  • Kylie
    19 years ago

    Do you want to I mean It is totally up to you!