I love him but... idk how he feels

  • NinjaGirl
    16 years ago

    There's this guy, whom a majority of my poetry is based around, and i love him with all of my heart. but i don't know how he feels and i'm too scared to ask because we're just supposed to be friends and he's really shy. i got my friends to tell him that i like him and that i write for him and he hasn't even tried to talk to me about it. it really really hurts and i don't know what to do because i'm not that great with relationships. i give my friends advice but i can't do it for myself. please, someone, help!!!!

  • Tiffany
    16 years ago

    I think he's probably not sure how reliable the information he is recieiving from ur friends is. Put urself in his shoes. A girl's friends have just told u that she loves u. He's probably not sure whether or not to believe them. I think u just need to tell him straight up. Just tell him. Face to face.

  • Paralyzed
    16 years ago

    You'll never get an answer to anything if you don't ask the question yourself and unless you are willing to take the leap once in a while you will always wonder. So really the question you have to ask yourself is whether or not it is worth it, if you really like as much as your portray take the first step.

  • Bugg
    16 years ago

    I write poetry about the guy I like, too. But I would never tell him! That would be like suicide for me. lol I'm scared to talk to him... I dunno why.

  • NinjaGirl
    16 years ago

    It's too scary to tell him. as i said before, he's really quiet and shy so when he's shy, i go shy and i can barely talk to him as it is :(

  • Miss Kay
    16 years ago

    What the heck. You have 3 posts about this crap?

    Good lord.

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Well..there are manhy ways you can go with this.
    1. You can face your fears and tell him..and risk your friendship.
    2. You can keep it in and remain friends forever.
    Now there are other options bt i just listed off 2.
    I suggest telling him. Because obviously you arent happy with being just friends..so maybe you can be more than that!! Either way its tough stuff! And i totally get what your going through. But sometimes taking a risk can be totally worth it! Good luck!!
    With Love,
    Loni

  • Viola
    16 years ago

    Be open and honest with him directly. None of this got my friend to tell him I liked him type of crap.

    And if you're not good at relationships don't be in one.