What if one day we broke up.

  • Christianna
    16 years ago

    I have a boyfriend, W. He's really sweet and nice, and I really like him. But I don't understand him at all, he's really stubborn and really straightforward. I understand that he dislike being comment about himself. Well, who does.

    So today my very good girlfriend said a comment about him, which meant no harm. Then he said he was going home. He told me that he has a bad impression on her already.

    As I was going home today, I thought about it,
    "If he couldn't accept my friends, how is he going to accept me?" She is my friend afterall, I couldn't just tell her off about making a comment.

    What if one day we broke up because of all these?
    What if one day I just scream my head off because of all these?

    Give me advice, people. I truly thank you.

  • 2weak2smile
    16 years ago

    1st question - How long have you and your BF been together??

    2nd question - What did your friend say??

    3rd question - Have you heard the saying? "Bro's before Ho's"

    It should be the same with the other sex, BF'sand GF's come and go but friends are forever....

    I dont know this guy, but, Im sure he would choose his mates over you in a heart beat....Because as i said friends are forever.

  • ForbiddenSnowflake
    16 years ago

    I have been in a similar situation with an ex bf. My one advice is to NEVER throw a friendship away over a guy! I did that and I ended up with no friends coz eventually the guy broke my heart. Maybe just keep those two apart from each other and just spend quality time with both seperatly. Not everyone gets along.

    Relationships come and go, but friends are forever!

  • Christianna
    16 years ago

    We've been together for a few months already. We really had "chemistry", everything we like or dislike is the same.

    My friend made a comment, which I think was harmless and she merely just shoot off what she had in mind.

    I've never heard of the saying, I feel like an idiot in love.

  • Christianna
    16 years ago

    We've been together for a few months already. We really had "chemistry", everything we like or dislike is the same.

    My friend made a comment, which I think was harmless and she merely just shoot off what she had in mind.

    I've never heard of the saying, I feel like an idiot in love.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    You have to put your friends ahead of him.

    On the other hand, he doesn't have to like your friends or spend time with them. As long as they can be a little neutral towards each other, then you should be fine.

    I just wanted to add that considering your age and the fact that this relationship is still in it's early stages, chances are you will eventually break up with this guy. So take it slow, and enjoy it, but also be realistic.

  • BeatsMe
    16 years ago

    First of all Im curious to what the comment was. And second off, chances are your boyfriend isnt going to love every last one of your friends and vice versa, so I dont see how you could think that would relate to how he likes you.

  • Miss Kay
    16 years ago

    Oh come on.

    You're 16 & obviously haven't been dating this guy long if he's just now meeting your friends. Though I know you will read this comment & find it too blunt for your liking and I'm sure that you will overlook it. I must say this: You guys will break up eventually if already you're having these petty disagreements. I say, just get over it already.

    Harsh, but honest.
    .Kay.

  • Christianna
    16 years ago

    First, I did not give up my friendship because of this. She didn't even knew we had a little disagreement over this, at least not on the surface.

    Secondly, me and my boyfriend did not really fought or something. I just couldn't talk to him, so yeah, I had some time to cool off.

    Thirdly, I talked to a friend of mine, and I eventually got it over with.

    Last of all, everything's fine, perhaps I was just thinking too much.

    THANKS FOR ALL THE ADVICES.

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    Don't think about the ''what ifs''

    Take it one step at a time :)