If a guy likes you...

How do you know if a guy likes you? because at the moment, i'm as confused as hell. apparently even saying hi to someone of the opposite gender is considered flirting these days!

I don't understand why people need more than one post to ask the same question phrased differently. So let me make this very clear for you:

You have two options. 1- Talk to him and find out how he feels. 2- Don't talk to him and never know how he feels. There's no middle ground here. Good luck.

Go straight up to his nose and ask or just see how things go by for the time being.
Never ask someone to help you ask, things might get worst! [just my comment]

CHRISTIANNA

I agree do not ask someone to help you because that may just ruin everything! Trust me i know.

i would just ask him if i were you.

You guys make it sound like asking someone that you might have feelings for is a peice of cake! in case you guys haven't had a fling or new relationship in a while, it can be one of the hardest things you ever do.

I just talked to my CRUSH of like 3 months, about 3 weeks ago. My heart was pounding the entire time, and I burst into laughter when he left the room.

I don't think walking right up to them and just flat out asking them if they like you is a good idea either. It pushes them into a corner, and they might not feel comfortable enough to tell you.

Talk to them for a while about anything, the weather even. Get a comfort zone. Before you get to yours, they might get to theirs and tell you if they are feeling what you think.

Well im a guy, note my name is soulboy. but i do have the same trouble with girls, and uasulaly how i do it is to get a little flirty and see his reaction. i think the best way is to take it slow, if your not sure if he likes you, make him! so to round it off, just don't get really self confident about it, beacuse obnoxious girls are a huge turn off. ** hugs**

I agree with soulboy, girl signals can be equally as hard to cyther. Also not to sure about the flirting with him because then you are letting him know you are up for it when all you really want to know is if he likes you, take it slow and easy and just ask questions.