In utter confusion

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    So me and my bf have been together for 2 months now and well his ex gf is starting to get in the way a lot. she still has feelings for and she admits it by posting things on her myspace stating she loves him and that he is her hubby! so my bf does nothing about it he just says ignore it she cant have me back anyways. but he admits he still has feelings for her. so the question is do i trust him or is it that he is just trying to keep both of us. he claims hes not like hat i believe him and trust him but why would he let his ex gf get in the way and not tell her to take that off her myspace?? i really am confused! and also he puts up things saying baby i love u and now its like i dnt know to who they are and well him and his ex talk thru comments and now he hides them...so should i be bothered by it? he has my myspace password but i dnt have his he says its an invasion of privacy and is aid to me its just trust and he stays quiet! im scared that there is sumtin he is trying to hide but im scared to ask him....

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    If you think somethings going on, then you HAVE to ask him. Don't be scared, if he has nothing to hide then there won't be a problem. If you can't talk to him, then you shouldn't be dating him anyways.

  • David ODonnell
    16 years ago

    What ever you do, don't futher him from his ex anymore than they are or he may feel that you dont trust him anymore upon realising that he may leave. Trust is the key to any relationship.

  • XCarmenX
    16 years ago

    Yes trust is the key to any relationship. but its not right that he has your myspace password but you dont have his...whats up with that? my ex bf gave me his myspace password and i gave him mine as well...its only fair. now its also messed up that he now hides his comments. obviously he doesnt want you to see what him and his ex are talking about so he MUST be doing something wrong. dont torture yourself like this. you need to ask him what the hell is up and yeah tell him it'll be best if you guys take a break right now. you might see the guy he truly is. its not right that he doesnt tell his ex anything about what shes doing....its just not right. talk to him.

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    Ok well i am using firefox to view his myspace comments and we tookt he break to see wat he wanted and well he came back to me crying 2 days after saying he can't live without me...and well i still dont have his myspace password i rejected taking it from him well this is the reason why: my sister knew wat was going on so she talked to him and thats the only reason he was going to give it to me. I really dnt want his password if he doesnt want me to have it its just i cnt live with having it just because of someone else that got involved. As for reading his comments i found out she leaves him comments telling him she loves him adn that she happy how they are and she hopes they never change! so im still a little weirded out by that and idk wat to say we have gotten in abot 3 big fights over this past week about wats going on and he assures me that he's not cheating on me. and well my sister met him before i did and shes the one who introduced us and well she assured me also that he would never cheat. i trust him i really do its just the fact that i know she still has feelings for him and she still sprung off him that worries me and knowing her she will go to the end of the work running just to get him back...