Letting go

Hey everyone, i was just wondering if anyone had any good ways on how to let a guy go, its been a few months for me now, and i just cant seem to let him go, we never really had anything at all but we spent a lot of time together and when i finally got the courage to do anything about how i felt, he had a girlfriend, and then right before we had to go on this weekend trip with a bunch of other people together where we'd be spending most of the day together , he and his girlfriend broke up. the first few days were good, a little awkward, but we started to get better, and then his old ex started txting him again, and he was happy, like happier then ive seen him for a while, but then that kinda knocked me out of play, and i guess its better to just back off b/c hes happy, but its hard, i see him all the time, and it just makes me more and more upset. and i havent talked to him for a few months now, and i just cant bring myself to do it again, im afraid that if i do im just going to fall even harder then i already have, so i dunno a little help or suggestion would be great.

Well it seems that he's not really interested in you..sorry..since you say you havent spoken to him in a few months. so im guessing he hasnt contacted you either?? idk i might be wrong. if you say you guys never really had anything at all then i dont understand why its so difficult to let him go. or did you guys kiss, date, or what? cuz you dont mention if you did anything like that with him. just occupy yourself with something else...there are alot more guys out there. dont worry. just try and not think about him so much.

Thanks, and its ok, yaaa i know i didnt really elaborate and it does seem like we dont have anything now that ive said it outloud , so i guess i really am just holding onto something that isnt there, and your right, and no we never dated or anything, its just hard, like i know hes a really shy guy and if something was going to happen, then yaa it probably already would have, seeing as we spend 10 months of the year together and at least 4 nights out of the week together, its almost like talking face to face with him is easier then over msn or facebook, and now that we've almost hit summer, we both travel and are gone, so thanks, i guess i just needed a wake up call, the memories of us are all good times, laughs, smiles, and goffy stuff weve done together are good but thats probably as far as we'll ever get, and friends is maybe better, thanks

Your welcome...Glad i could help :D...Goodluck

I agree with Mia. she also went thro the same thing as me. I got over him. && if both of us did, i bet you can too. just try. believe me its worth it :)

Thank you everyone, it really does help, and its honestly getting easier, im moving on, were still not talking like we used to but weve seen each other a few times, and its not as hard as it used to be, thanks so much :)