If you dont love him why

  • CassandraXVeronicaXONealaXLawson
    16 years ago

    If you dont love him or feel like you dont why does it hurt to let him go?

  • Colby
    16 years ago

    Becuase though you dont love him and you dont like him, there is still a connection. Sometimes our emotions can control us way more then we think. Chances are if you are thinking about it a lot, you do like him but there is something blocking you from admitting to it.

    Now im not saying you do, its just, theres a chance unless you have really thought about it.

    You like him as a friend and you know there is something there. Perhaps you should tell him how you feel... and there might be a different kind of connection there that you dont know about

  • XCarmenX
    16 years ago

    Im kinda in the same situation...i ended things with my ex bf cuz well i did something im not too proud of doing...so i just dont think it was right for me to still be with him after what i did...i felt that i really did love him i honestly felt that i meant it...but i kept thinking that i wouldnt have done what i did to him if i really loved him.

    im with this other guy now, but i still think about my ex alot. if apparently i dont love him why is he still on my mind constantly? why do i still feel jelousy when i see that he talks to other girls? if i dont love him then why do i still want him in my life...so many questions i cant seem to answer...plz help.

  • XCarmenX
    16 years ago

    Well i think a part of me does love him...but im not really IN love with him you know?...he's a really great guy i loved the way he treated me and the words he'd say. and yes your right i am afraid of losing him forever...a part of me does want to let him go completely but another part of me still wants him in my life. i feel bad for feeling this way cuz of my bf he doesnt know whats been going through my mind. and im also scared of telling him. i just want to stay friends my ex but i dont want it to be weird between us.