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My girlfriend is the best in the world, but the last time we broke up i hooked up with another dude and i am not completly ova him, and she says it is her or him, and of course i want her becuz i love her, but he is not out of my mind, he iss bad news and i want nothin to do with him but i still have 2 see him at this thing i go to, i want to eliminate him, but if i do then the help i need willl be gone.
how do i get ova him when i see him durin the week

^ So true. Just tell him how it is and go with your heart. If you don't want to be with him then you don't have to be. Just try to ignore him if you have to.

I have told both of them...
my girlfreind keeps bringin him to the table and it makes me feel so guilty, shes broke my heart once, and i know how it feels so i would neva hurt her, but the thing with my "exbf" is he wont lay off and he just dont understand that I DONT love him, and i DONT want to be with him