Oh is it love?

How can you tell a boy is just saying "i love you" to get in your pants or when hes accually fallen for you?

Me and my boyfriend have only been dating for a week. but weve liked eachother for some time...he told me he loved me....after one thing led to another...i know it seems too soon like "h my god only a week? you whore" well no. im not, b.c i accually have fallen for this boy...

Is this for real?
Or is he another ass?

Well first of all i don't think your a whore, yes it is possible to fall in love quickly...and i honestly don't know if its for real or not. what does your heart say? just follow your heart, if your kinda iffy about it then maybe your heart is trying to tell you something.
i hope he's not another ass, when he says the words, "i love you" does your hear whisper back, "i know"
i hope he's not another ass, see how he treats you, and then maybe you'll be able to tell.
best wishes, meghan

If it's a week, then I doubt he really loves you. Don't have sex with him, not only are you still a child, but you aren't even in a serious relationship. Wait one year. If he sticks around that long, and you love him, then you can do what you want. If he doesn't, well then I guess you have your answer.

Ermm no you're not a whore... we've all had our moments. but you don't neccesarily have to have sex when you're in love, it's just better that way i suppose. But i think you should wait a while before you two go at it again, that way you can see if that really is all he wants.

Thats true. I have been trying that. to see how long it takes him to wait. he told hed wait as long as i want. (even tho he knows i want it >.>) but i can resist. i'm good with that. besids i need my answer.

Have u got your answer yet

This post is pointless now.

the guy dumped me.

it's over.

whata drag

SIKE!

Guess he answered that question for you then...

Hmm.. i don't agree 16 is too young..
that depends each person. i don't think anyone can tell you, if yes or no.
yeah, you CAN fall in love in a week, or more likely in a deep crush? but if you've known eachother before.. then i don't know. why not? n_n
but i think a weeks a bit too soon. anyways if he DOES love you, then he won't bother at all waiting a little while more. if not, then move on, wasn't worth it.
but again that's just my opinion n_n

Why is everyone saying 16 is too young O_o??
i don't think so.. (and im not even talking by experience, so don't so all saying , -that's cause you did it-)
it depends the guy, and the *want*
though a weeks too soon.. why not once shes knows him a little more? once she can really say.. is he ass or not?

Only a 16 year old can fall in love with someone in a week. And if you're still at the age where you're falling in love in one week, then you're too young to be having sex.

I dont think i was too young. i just fell for him. but the jerkwad decided i wasent good enough so i guess its pointless....

Well it dont matter now.
i gots me a new boyfriend.

the ex just wanted me to be his first b.c he had always wanted to fuck me. he used me like boys play halo. and hes darn proud of it.

how pathetic.

Yep, that's love all right.

Hopefully you learned a lesson here, and will be a little more responsible with this new boyfriend.

Yeah.

my new boyfriend accually doesnt like sex. he feels it ruins relationships.
so its all good for now

Lol; he dumped me last nite.

dudddeeee; i am SO taking a break from this shit

Dont pity me lol.

pity can suck it
haha

go on wit your life sweetheart

He what? why????

Becuase his ex wasent moving. he only dumped her becuase she was and according to him he "loved her" what hurt was the fact he couldnt even try. he couldnt even try to see if mabey i was like his ex. he just threw me away to be with her.

Oh well i suppose.

i guess it's gonna taKE some time for me to feel confident.

It always does
anyways he didnt seen that much worth it
there's other fish in the sea ^^

Yes yes yes.

my friend calls me his little player b.c i can snap right back in the game.

which i have;
i'm talkin to this one boy now and i think i have a shot :)

so let's just hope this is not another reject.

It is easy 2 fall in love quickly,2 quickly if u ask me.my boyfriend told me after a week and we have been dating for a yr and 9 months today.I have 2 say we are both still vergins and we are proud of it we are waiting till highshcool id over before we think a/b having S*x anyways .....no I think it is early to do that but ur not a WH**e b/c it comes natural believe me I've been wanting to do it my self but I'm willing to wait as well as my man

Well than...first of all..you are not a w**** for thinking you are in love..so get that out of your head...like now..lol and second of all...love if what you make it...if you truly believe its love..than thats great. But you will know if you are in love. Nobody on here can tell you whether you are in love bcuz none of us know you or him.

Everyone thinks to much about love.
Go look in the dictionary.
It's simply finding traits in a person that appeals to you.
It varies as to what people like and thats probably why everyone is so confused about it.
As its already been said, nobody else can tell YOU what love is.
As for the virginity thing, just dont get pregnant, dont have sex when ur drunk and in a random back yard at someones party.
Respect yourself. I mean, its a bit unlikely that you are going to marry the person you lose your virginity but just make sure they are special to you and you care about each other.

"Too young" is an opinion. Not a fact.
And yes, everyone is entitled to there own opinion.

Ok bayb u are definitly not a whore which the previous posts have said, i dont belive a boy after a week of datin really loves me, but if he really does he willl respect you, if u guys have known eachotha for a while it could be posible

I cannot agree more with you all.