How Do I Get Through It?

...its so complicated
We dated for a long time..we were happy..so in love..untill love couldnt hold us together anymore...
It took months to get over him..he would call every once in a while & tell me he loved me then he wouldnt speak to me for days..he made it hard to move on...
Until finally a few months later I found someone who made the pain dissappear..then my ex calls..he tells me seeing me with my new b/f hurts....i cried for days...how do you get over someone if they keep coming back?
But i held strong..stayed with my current b/f....but now my ex keeps calling me, telling me he was stupid to let me go like that....
I mean he was my first love & there will alwyas be a place for him..but I cant go back to the pain....I cant ...but i get so close to walking right back into his arsm..when i know my current b/f wont hurt me like he did...
I dont know what to do...
How do you leave it behind..if it still haunts you..if he still calls...if he still sends you texts every now in then tellin gyou he loves you...how do i get through it?

Love can be so rotten, i didnt get over my ex for a year, however yes it is hard. But seriously ignore the guy. I know its hard because in a way you want him there because hes apart of you but think what is best for yourself, your current bf and your ex. Ignore him even if its hurts because seriously if you continue it can only lead to the worse. Ignore all his text just dont look at them. Believe me i know your pain. I know its hard but you must think on good terms. You can do it, i wish you all the best.^^

I hope your right...thanks

What was the reason for ur breaking up in the 1st place? he broke up with you but what for?

however i also agree with what finalgravedigger says. it took me also a very long time to get over my ex, an the only way i was able to do it was by putting distance between us, not comuunicating with him, it was only then that time slowly healed the pain of not being with him.
And in ur case ur actually fortunate to have a caring bf to b there to help you move on, in a positve direction in ur life...

No i left him...because like times were getting tough..& we were growing farther apart & i was scared to get hurt so i left him...but it back fired & i hurt really bad
but yea i try to say to myself "i wont pick up his call or reply to his txt"
but when i hear his ring tone i get so excited & i cant help it..its just hard right now

Change your number. thats what i did otherwise my ex would do the same thing. even that hurt but it was easier because then i didnt have to hear his ringtone or see he texted me, and i didnt see him, it was as if he just disappeared and it gave me time to heal

^^ there is no way im changing my number...i have to many numbers in my phone to call them & let them know i got my number changed..but that is smart