Why would u say that???!

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Hey everybody, ik a lot of u are tired and feel weak, and u feel like ur never ganna get through life at all. but if ur young, u still are learning about life! why the heck would u say u wanna kill urself? teen years suck! ik they do cuz im going through them! and i didnt care for my life either at 1 point. but its just the moment u dont care about anything or any1. ur mind is in a deep state of depression (yes depression runs in my family, sadly it comes out on me 2, but not as much as it did) and ur mind says u wanna go. cuz ur angry, or sad, sick of crying, anything that u dont wanna do again!

    so the reason im posting this, is because i think u better have a PRETTY DARN GOOD REASON to think of ending ur life at an early age. i regret ever being suicidal.

  • Rozzy
    16 years ago

    It always gets worse before it can get better. Only you can change your views on your life, simply because it's yours. If your life is crappy and you're so sick of it, then change it. Stand up and fight for your happiness..

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Ik! thats what i wanna know! if u keep making ur life crapy and keep urself in a low & bad mood, ur life is ganna suck. so...be a lil stronger!

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Theres nothing easy about it. u do it and u truly die, people that care about u die along with u. (figure of speech) and if u dont kill urself all the way, u might of just paralyzed urself. that truly would suck.

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    Some people just can't cope as well as others.

  • David ODonnell
    16 years ago

    That is a form of bullying to tell depressed people if they kill them selfs then thier parents and friends are gonna be upset and hurt... The reason they are killing themselfs is because they feel that neither thier parents or friends should experience what they are going through or want to know what it is.

    Most kids and I say kids cause thats where depression really is are talking about death and suicide if their girlfriend or boyfriend doesnt love them no more or if they failed a course in school. Thats a miniscule problem compared to Cronic Depression, being bullied all your life, in and out of hospital for rare and dangerous illnesses or losing loved ones.

    The next time you even 'think' about doing it remember that you havent lived a full life of shit yet and do leave before the show is over and not knowing the outcome, people have died for much more!

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    THANK YOU! THATS WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING! u havnt experienced hell yet!!!!

  • tamara
    16 years ago

    You people make me sick. people like you guyz are the ones that make me so depressed. i have not and do not plan on killing myself but i do suffer from diagnosed depression. it is people like yous calling me weak for not dealing quite as well with my problems as you have that contribute to my depression.
    and who cares what the truth is when your depressed truth or lies everything negative hurts.

    just so u kno i also think that saying suicide is week is the biggest insult ever! to commit suicided is to end you life which in my opinion is the biggest division ever. you cant take suicide back once its done your life is over. there is no more anything. i mean what is bigger than that.

    im not saying that suicide is right but im just saying all u people who say it is easy have clearly neva been close to doing it and should keep your mouths shut about topics u dont understand

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Well, i posted this topic thinking of why the H--L ppl say that they wanna kill themselves if their ONLY 14. yes, i have depression we found and do what we can to care 4 it, but ppl that say that there ganna kill themselves at least TRY. ik at least 10 ppl that said that they were ganna kill themselves, and they tried 2. 2 ended up dead, 5 in the hospital, and 3 passed out and found on the floor (didnt take enough pills)

    for u 2 say not 2 judge ppl, take another look.

    (tamara)^

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    I never meant 4 this 2 blow up!

    but hey, Angilina prob did go through some tough crap, and she just deosnt wanna remember or discuss it. not mentioning it deosnt mean that she'd makin things up.

  • JAZMIN
    16 years ago

    Depression is bad, and can make you end your life...
    I was recently suicidal and wanted to die, i would pray to God to take me away but now I realized i should have never said that even though i am still depressed i want to get better, but i think depression is always and will always be a part of me.... dont get me wrong.... i do try.... but its hard some people deal with it better than others... i am one of the weak ones but i am trying to be strong.... i dont know if i am making sense.... but everyone has a reason to be suicidal and i think sometimes that someones suicide can sometimes be another persons reality check.... i might be wrong but that is the way i think about it.... I know my best friend tried to kill herself when she was 16 and almost succeed....it made alot of people change the way they thought about trying to committ suicide after they heard her story...
    all I can tell people is to be strong and face life with their head up because it might not get easier but at the end we will get through it all....
    I know tha i found my reason for living...
    My nephew is 12 and stopped walking when he was 9.... he has a disease and slowly losing his ability to eat and do other things.... like even lift his arms... and you know what he has NEVER asked anyone why he is like that.... or he never complains.... but that is what keeps me stronger each day... he is the reason I keep going each day...
    Good Luck to everyone dealing with the pain!!

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    I think ur reason 4 living is amazing. im so glad that ur getting over it 2 help ur nephew, that is so incredible 4 u. and im sorry 2 hear about his condition.

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Ok, um........how do i get this back on track.......

    what makes u happy when ur down ??? =D

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Just writing down all my worries and leaving them on paper. and music :)

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    U totally gave my question a good point! ya, ppl do need 2 look at others that have no choice. i cant belive HOW MANY people are in depression and are suicidal. its just plain old sad.

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    Wow
    that was O_o"
    interesting to read?
    lots of points of views. (little argument though)
    i have to agree that suicide is running away from your problems. And they leave too many people hurt, confused, and not understanding why.
    I've been that person. And there's nothing more painful, then not understanding. When you've done everything you could to help and be there.
    Its simply a easy way out, some saying life is too hard, they're alone in their problems. HOW many, DO have someone caring for them, being there! and they still do it! too much of a coward to get back up. when all they have to do is try... espcially when some do have a helping hand to pull them back up.
    I 've got my best friend now in these kind of problems. And i refuse for her to even think about suicide.
    - if life seems to have no point, it's up to you to make it worth living-

  • adriaan
    16 years ago

    Man, I hate suicidal people, emos included. Though I don't need to worry, since at their current rate their kind of people will soon die out. It's not a very good survival tactic. :)

    I see absolutely no point in committing suicide. I watched this film once, these people had found a way to come back to life after death, but it meant that FIRST you had to willingly kill yourself. And sometimes it didn't work, and they stayed dead. :p

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Hah! wow.

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    That was direct O_o"

  • Moose
    16 years ago

    Tia I'm sorry, but you're 14, You have no right to determine what hell someone has been through in their life. I'd tell you what I wouldn't go back through my first teen years if my life depended on it. I hated them, and I'm extremely proud of myself that I survived through the trials and tribulations I endured.

    Depression is a MENTAL ILLNESS. It doesn't mean they are crazy, but it could have a GREAT DEAL as to why some people can't handle some of the emotional distress that a lot of us endure everyday.

    I know stories about 4-12 year old children that would haunt you in your dreams, and the fact that a few of those people are still walking today, I hold them in high respect. I do agree that suicide is a low way out, but it is a way out, and that's what they are looking for. Not to intentionally hurt another person (bout 98% of the time this is the case).

    Some people can not endure what life has thrown at them, and yes some people do go to extremes for what we believe are simple problems. It's not a subject to joke about and to judge someone upon, because its a serious problem that more and more people are having difficulties with.

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    But thats what im saying. im totally happy 4 u that u made it through ur teen years (which were crappy) and now ur better. u held on! good for u =] other ppl need 2 do the same 2.

    and ik that ppl are having issues with it everyday and its sad 2 see.