Have you ever gotten the *butterflies*?

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    You know that feeling.. when your with someone.
    just seems you 've got the - butterflies-
    happens with the first person, first crush, first love.
    Those cold hinges running up your back when hes/shes only just staring back at you.

    just asking.. if there is such an answer..
    those *feelings* those butterflies, do they occur just because it was the first? or does it depend the person? and it can happen again...

    A friend of mine said - that they just come once. because its the -unknown-
    but that, it wouldn't happen again.. better stop looking for it

    i just can't seem to believe that. i can't imagine a relationship without them. i'm waiting for those feelings again... and seems like i've been waiting too long they say..
    is the waiting worth it? or is she right.. it just doesn't happen twice

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    16 years ago

    Ive gotten butterflies from several different people. i get them because i feel cared for, and i care for those people back. because each person has something new, something different, about them. they'll happen again. after my first and only love thus far in my 17.5 yr long life, i didnt feel butterflies agai until about a yr and a half later...

    keep searching for your butterflies. they'll crawl right back in you, even when u least expect it.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    16 years ago

    I've gotten butterflies once, last summer.
    I do believe that it's possible to get them again.
    And I do think it depends on the person.

    I don't think they really matter in a relationship ... But then my dating track is exactly the prettiest on the world. They are worth waiting for though, if YOU can't imagine a relationship without them, because it is you that's going to be living to keep that relationship breathing.

  • Lori
    16 years ago

    Lol yup ive gotten the butterflies for someone!

  • TeenXLoveXTragedy
    16 years ago

    I get butterflies all the time when I'm with my boyfriend. We've been together for 2 years and they still feel exactly the same they did the first time. I think they just happen when something is so amazing it just takes your breath away..or maybe your nervous about something. I certainly dont think they only come once.

  • Aveena
    16 years ago

    Ive gotten thm everey time im around my best friend that stopped happening now tho.

  • sweet escape
    16 years ago

    Oh, yes

    i have had the butterflies
    the rollercoaster
    the speed bump
    and the list goes on.

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    -wasted fake smiles-

    a year and a half? guess i'm not there yet . its only been a year and a bit. so i'm not going cold or anything. just needs time .
    it's nice to know n_n

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    -sweet escape-

    lol nice images.
    guess they do feel like that.

  • PnQ Mod Account
    16 years ago

    Been married 20 years... we've had our ups and downs, but yes... you can get them again! :)

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    -amanda barnhart-

    that sounds so sweet n_n

  • SoUrNameIsTia
    16 years ago

    Yes, but they dont really come anymore. its more of a big happy feeling now

  • HumanAngel
    16 years ago

    The waiting is worth it - you can get it more than once.

    When I first saw my boyfriend I physically felt weak at the knees... He was the only guy to ever talk let alone show interest in me!

    He was so charming and shy and it was just....woo-ing... lol....

    It's the only way I can describe the feeling...

  • Misunderstood Misery
    16 years ago

    I think it just depends on the person and your relationship with them. I think it can happen again, just when you least expect it. If you're always expecting it, wanting it to happen, then that might affect them happening. Heck, I'm dating someone right now, and I'm getting the butterflies when I'm around/text one of my guy friends. (Yes, I know, its a really messed up situation.) I'd just let it go, and when they happen, they happen.

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    -Tia xOxO running around-

    i hope they do come back around ...

  • ADreamToMyNightmare
    16 years ago

    They do come back to you... i always get butterflies when i'm with my crush. we havent officially started being boyfriend and girlfriend yet but everytime i'm with him he gives me butterflies. the things he tells me, the way he stares at me, and the way he holds my hand...gives me butterflies. its a nice feeling and i say you should keep looking for that feeling because it is possible to get them more than once...
    i hope you find it! (n_n)

  • adriaan
    16 years ago

    I don't think I ever did get butterflies...something else though :p If we're talking the same butterflies you get on a high swing :)

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    -bellepheron-
    you don't like them O_o"
    wow you the first to say that lol [there not suppose to make you sick lol]

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    God, so many times...
    It feels so wonderful. Like when you go up a HUGE hill in a car, and then suddenly down. Or like when you're going down on a rollar coaster. That's what the butterflies feel like to me.

    I ALWAYS get them when I talk to my ex-boyfriend Tyler. He is.... gah, so amazing. Everything I feel with him is totally unreal. God I miss him so much...

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    LOL yea exactly . though u have them you're not even moving .

    but he's your ex.. have you gotten them with someone else??

  • Blackstar
    16 years ago

    I've got those *butterflies*
    every time i see him, speak to him....
    actually he's my first real love
    so i think i cant answer that question
    but i think you can have the *butterflies* again
    and not only the first time

  • Kayla
    16 years ago

    ^ Exactly =)

    Yes, he is my ex, but ah... all of our feelings are still there. We only broke up because he had to move. So we're still crazy about one another.

    I have gotten them with someone else though. When I was with this guy named Ray. But not near as much as when I'm with Tyler.

  • WaitAutumn
    16 years ago

    O_o oh i hate moving.. i know what it's like.
    thats really nice to hear that you two still care for eachother. tends to be the opposite after a while.

  • XxBrokenInsidexX
    16 years ago

    Honestly I think she is right

    I mean ive been in love twice but the feelings i get with my fiance arent as strong as the ones i got with my first love
    My body would tingle when my first love would kiss me..I would get butterflies when he called or when I saw his face
    But when me & my fiance' first dated well i waited for those things to happen & well they didnt..yea i get happy when he calls but i dont feel tose buterlies like I did with my first...
    I guess its because it was a my first..he was number 1 & well he gave my heart a feeling I never felt before....

  • Shotput Girl
    16 years ago

    I still get butterflies when I even think about my boyfriend. I love him so much. When I know I'm going to talk to him or see him I get them. We've been together almost 10 months now and I still get them!!!